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    #16
    AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

    Shue--Brava to you! I think you and I started at MWO around the same time and you really sound like your mind and heart is in a different place and like you're ready to let AL go from your life. It's true, we all initially wanted to get the drinks down to 2 or so and had no intention of going with total abstinence, but abstinence is the only way. It's not like we're giving anything positive up! Thanks for getting us started today.

    Sugarbeat--You've got to stop that negative talk and turn it to positive thoughts. You are what you think you are. You are what you think about. If you think negatively, you will be negative. As soon as you realize that you're thinking negatively say to yourself STOP. And replace that thought with something positive. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you. You've got to start loving yourself and trusting yourself first. And the truth is that it sounds like you're telling yourself that you're unlovable and untrustworthy dozens of times a day through your thoughts. You can't expect others to value you if you don't project that you value yourself. Start with yourself, trust yourself, love yourself and the rest will follow.

    TDN--60 degrees sounds divine! I'm with you on having a hard time keeping up with the posts. Lyme Disease is a bear and so many people test negative when they really do have it. I know a couple people who now have devastating health problems because it wasn't diagnosed for years. I hope you don't have it.

    Almostfamous--Congratulations on 2 weeks! I'm with you on keeping a journal. I don't think I'd ever write my true feelings in one because I'd be afraid of someone reading it. MWO is the only place I've been honest about my drinking.

    Blonde--Congrats on 2 weeks! :good job: I've been trying to use the crockpot more lately too. Have a great day and work and positive vibes for your doctor's appointment tomorrow.

    Lav--Have a great time at LG. I hope you bring back some photos for us to enjoy. I love the orchids.

    Greeneyes--I hope whatever bug you have leaves you soon! I don't mind the neti pot personally.

    I'm off from work on this beautiful day. No plans on the agenda, but I do want to get some exercise in. Does anyone have experience with biofeedback? I've heard good things about it in regard to stress relief and also that it's helpful with headaches. I've been looking at some systems that I could buy online to use at home. I'm still feeling great and really have no cravings. Would it be too good to be true if I continued to not have cravings? I think today is day 18 for me.

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      #17
      AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

      Sugar you were posting as I was typing. This struck me:

      I know they care but christ if people keep telling you are something its bound to stick.
      In my opinion that's really not true. It might seem true to you because there's a part of you that believes your mother might be right. But if you didn't believe the things she was saying with all your heart, it wouldn't matter to you at all.

      As absurd as it sounds, imagine if you walked in on her telling your father that you're a chicken. "Yep, I heard her clucking and everything." You'd laugh and shake your head and think she was nuts, and really would it matter if she was telling people you were a chicken? You'd know the truth and wouldn't give a fig what she was telling people. And you'd think that any logical person would see that it wasn't true. You've got to believe in yourself that the things she is saying aren't true. Just shake your head and smile and tell yourself that she's misguided and doesn't know what she's talking about and then show her again and again and again that the chicken she's talking about isn't a chicken anymore.

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        #18
        AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

        Sugar, how about you read something light, vacuous but semi - based on a story. Unless you?ve been living under a rock in Dublin there?s no way you have not heard of Marian Keyes ? she is a former booze head herself. I read this book again after I graduated from problem drinker to ?a little one in the morning won't hurt? and actually appreciated the book at a whole new level. Sometimes laughter is the best medicine. Just sayin?.

        Rachel's Holiday - Marian Keyes

        :h:h:h
        workaholic, shoeaholic and yes ... alcoholic

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          #19
          AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

          Good morning Fabinistas. Lots going on here this morning, boy this site has shaped up recently...

          Guys, dont be too hard on the neti pot, Im just sayin. It helps if you read the directions, I have learned the hard way. If youre snorting and blowing like one of Sunbuts horses, yer doin it wrong. A pool at your feet is a bad sign, too.

          Lots of advice for Sugar I see. Can I add mine? Your poor parents maybe dont know the stages of AL recovery so well? They are not very good at recognizing the struggle you are going through. But they love you. The longer you keep away from AL totally, the easier it gets. You are really early on. Lots of head and body stuff goin on. Keep up with the tea, and Shu is right, distractions and reading or what ever takes your mind off it is good.

          I have this massive amount of work to do, and I am not a well Kaslo. So its down to the vowels of the writing dungeon.

          One things for sure.

          Kaslo
          Kaslo

          Stopped the madness: February 14, 2011
          Status: Happy:h

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            #20
            AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

            Happy mid day Tuesday, lovelies!

            Sugar... cannot add to what has been said. Chin up, kiddo. As dark as the day may seem, it is an AF day to CELEBRATE. :l

            Flyaway... :H I have a friend, actually, who just may be a chicken. I did, in fact, hear her cluck on many occasions.

            Now, yaw'll (that's Canuck hick talk) making me look up what the heck a neti pot is. Fine.

            Blonde... happy day at work, especially if it's a long one.

            TDN, how is Bud doing after his last chemo?

            Hello to all on page one (which bird brain over here can't remember) and all to come! I'm off into the tub and then to see peanut #2 and the junior after. So much for work today. Will let you in on new developments after I find out more this afternoon.

            Tally-Ho!
            Okay, WHO put a stop payment on my reality check?

            Winning since October 24th, 2013

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              #21
              AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

              Kaslo;1275236 wrote: Guys, dont be too hard on the neti pot, Im just sayin. It helps if you read the directions, I have learned the hard way. If youre snorting and blowing like one of Sunbuts horses, yer doin it wrong. A pool at your feet is a bad sign, too.
              No, no, no you definitely don't use it like one of Sunbutt of the Great White North's farting horses, that is for sure.

              Kaslo I hope that you're feeling better and that we can get some of your photos and poetry soon. :h

              Cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck....

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                #22
                AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                God I must be a great lesson the anyone thinking of going back, and I reckon reading back on my posts in a few months time will be a great reminder for me too

                As they say I need to give myself some time and I'm taking all your advise, really appreciate it

                Any sign of Sausage today? mad how you start lookin out for others
                "When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it"

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                  #23
                  AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                  sugarbeat;1275270 wrote: God I must be a great lesson the anyone thinking of going back, and I reckon reading back on my posts in a few months time will be a great reminder for me too

                  As they say I need to give myself some time and I'm taking all your advise, really appreciate it

                  Any sign of Sausage today? mad how you start lookin out for others

                  Sugar what happens with me and a lot of other people I've noticed is that once you get a few months sober time down you start thinking that you've got things under control. That's usually when the alcohol voice starts in my head. And that's usually when I slip. And that's when I think it's great
                  to go back and read your old posts. Because after a while you forget just how sad and desperate you were and how much you were dying to be sober. I bet you will go back and read your old posts in the future and be amazed at how different you feel.

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                    #24
                    AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                    Hi everyone Sausage checking in here!
                    Sorry I am a bit late, I only work 2 days a week as I have young kids, and Tues is my really long day, so ths is first opportunity I've had to check in.
                    Thank you for thinking of me. I feel better than last night but still have to get the kids showered and into bed and then fix sometng to eat. Going to grab a soft drink and then I'll be back later. Hoping this evening isn't as bad as last night.
                    Back in a short while x

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                      #25
                      AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                      Yay Sausage! Glad to see you here.

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                        #26
                        AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                        Hi everyone, tonight has gone so much easier than last night, thankfully. I'm off to bed shortly, having completed day 12. Sorry I've not had much time to read ,comment and post today. I'll be back tomorrow afternoon, as I have work in early part of the day.
                        Goodnight all

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                          #27
                          AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                          Way to go sausage! Busy is good.

                          Flyaway, nice job on last night's dinner!

                          Kas, good observation on the sugarbeats parents take on things. You really can't fully understand it not having experienced it.
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                          Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                            #28
                            AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                            Hi everyone,

                            I don't have access to the internet everyday but I pop in when I can and I derive a lot of inspiration here. It's day 8 AF for me and I feel great!
                            Have a wonderful AF day!
                            make the least of the worst, and the most of the best - everyday.

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                              #29
                              AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                              Hi jessie - good to see you!

                              Hello to everyone!
                              sugarbeat, please just don't listen to the bad mouthing or whatever it is coming from your Mom......
                              she probably is concerned about you but not showing it properly. Glad you are here with us

                              OK, here's some of the colors of the day from Longwood Gardens



                              Loved the Blue Poppy!
                              Had a nice time with the girls too
                              AF since 03/26/09
                              NF since 05/19/09
                              Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                                #30
                                AF Daily - Tuesday, March 6

                                popping in real quick before I pass out (AF pass out of course!). My meds finally came but will take some time to kick in. I've felt the worst today. Nephew is doing well tho after 4 wisdom extractions so that's good.

                                Sugar-You've gotten a lot of good advice today and I would heed it seriously. Additionally, are you taking any of the supplements recommended by the program? If not, please look into them as well as maybe the natural AD that Lav and I have used. You may need some help to get over this hump but please rest assured you will get over it.

                                Hey Sausage-great job last nite! Keep up the good work!

                                Shu-MAINE!! My dream retirement desitination. Most people want the Cape or FLA or AZ. Not me. Give me Bar Harbor any day!! I'm sure you will be super wicked busy on your RV trip but just put this away for a rainy day: I have a level drive that can house a moderately sized RV (not bus or semi sized). I have hookups and 3 dogs who would love to make you feel welcome. My city isn't Boston or NYC but the surrounding area is gorgeous so if you feel like a visit (and I am central to everything), just let me know.

                                Lav-oh those pics were eye candy!! Don't need cookies tonite after seeing those!! Glad you had a great time and thanks! Got my delivery too today!

                                Greenie, Kas-hope you are feeling better. The neti isn't so bad once you get used to it. I've been using it a lot more this week than I have in the past. Not sure it's helping but probably not hurting.

                                OK, I've got to crawl into bed.
                                New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                                "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                                KO the Beast!!

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