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[MaggieD47]

So where are the boys? I'll go ahead and start today since they seem to be sleeping in.

I have completed one week AF! My first week ever. Last night was the most difficult. Work was stressful and I wanted so bad to go home and drink wine and have some kettle chips. I hate when it's so hard. Most evenings aren't that bad, thankfully. I managed to drive by the liquor store on the way home, throw in a Lean Cuisine Pizza and had an orange soda in my snowflake wine glass. I was fine after starting to eat.

Amazing how my brain kicked right in with the ideas. "Just two glassses of Chard and one SMALL single serving bag of kettle chips will be OK." Whatever....

Love to all here :hug:

Maggie

[Rocky]

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Maggie,

This is day six for me and like you I had a very tough night not giving in. I was tired form the days work, got home .. the in-laws where there (they live with us) My wifes sister came up to stay for a week, and since she was there her other sister came over, her daughter and baby....Vodka...here I come!!!!

Somehow....I took some more sups, drank water, and keep myself ocupied...I'm really surprised I did not faulter...but we made it

Congratulations to you!!! Keep up the good work!

[dilayne]

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Hi Maggie and Rocky..congratulations on the AF days! That is wonderful.
I'm OK...the winter blues are knocking on my door, I think. I'm trying not to give into them too much. My husband and I are going to NYC next weekend just for fun, and the following week I'll be visiting sisters, so that will be good. I have something to look forward to which will pull me out of this place I feel like I've been sinking in.
TGIF!
Di

[YoungAtHeart]

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Great job to both of you, Maggie and Rocky! It sounds like you are both very committed and definitely feeling proud this morning.

Dilayne, I hope that you get out of that bluesy place soon, too. I hope you didn't get "iced down" too badly with the storm.

I just wanted to say that I have a very busy weekend this weekend, so if I don't post, please don't worry about me. I'll still be checking in, but given my voluminous posts......you all know what I mean!

I had a viewing and funeral to go to this week--not someone close to me fortunately, but the grandmother of a good friend--and it definitely set me back time wise. I have to get my taxes started for Maddy's financial aid applications, and also I have to get some sewing and billing done.

I will definitely be buying some AF wine to watch the Superbowl on Sunday. I don't think I'm ready for that one without some kind of substitute.

Anyway, love to all who will be here later. Have a good day!

Hugs,
Kathy

PS: I installed a new firewall/spyware/antivirus suite on my computer through my internet provider that won't let me use my smilies!! How exaperating! :-O

[sammys]

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It is so cold here I know why they are sleeping in. Well I am off to work but first I have to dress like an eskimo so I don't freeze my #$%$#off. Have a good day I will check back later.


Sammys

[sammys]

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Young at Heart no smiles, bummer.

Sammys

[Changeling]

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Day 37

Happy Friday everyone

Well done Rock & Maggie resisting the temptation, the demon drink is a formidable enemy that does not like to give in easily but I am sure you are both up to the fight.

Dilayne, NYC lucky you, that should help you beat those winter blues.

Kathy sounds like you have quite a busy schedule going on, best wishes for your weekend.

Day 37 for me, and it truly is getting easier, I am using my time really productively and do not feel that I am missing out on anything, quite the opposite.

Happy weekend everyone to folllow
Changeling

[mikeupnorth]

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Well I for one cannot sleep in, unfortunately. I've had the strangest sleep cycle since I've been AF.... early to bed, EARLY to rise.... but that's OK and much, much better than what I was doing before. But just one of these days I'd like to sleep a little late, just for a treat. I do, however, indulge in afternoon naps whenever I get the opportunity!

Glad to hear you guys are resisting the temptation even when it's hard.... as I recall, I had a hard time right around the one week mark, but it got easier after that. Just remember the tough times don't last forever!

Sorry about the winter blues or blahs Di, and hopefully NYC will snap you out of it. February here in AK is still DEEP winter, but I have decided I like it because we have lots of sunshine back!

And Kathy I will miss your smilies all over but it's better to protect yourself these days... lots of malicious stuff out there. And remember, you still have your exclamation marks!!!!!

Anyway, happy Friday to all!

Mike

[rivergirl]

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Maggie and Rocky, I wanted to ask you if you are using the hypnotic CDs? The reason I am asking is that what you went through last night sounds so much like what it used to be like for me when i would go AF. I would have those desperate urges and have to completely distract myself - or who knows what to keep from drinking. Now i have used the CDs and am on Day 34 AF today. Each day I have no urges. If the thought comes to my head to drink anther thought immediately comes that says" you don't drink, girl" and i say - "oh, right - I almost forgot" I only had one semi difficult evening so far flying home after a difficult week out of town and several problems with flight connections,, etc.

I really think the CDs are making the difference since i am not taking any meds and only some of the supps. Do try them if you haven't so far - the cost is so little when you consider the results.

Rivergirl

[Wynot]

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Just checking in. If I make it thru today (and I will...) it will be one week. Mike, glad to know it got easier for you at that milestone - gives me hope.

Also, how do I add my name to the drink tracker thingy? I tried the "click here" at the bottom of the list but when I entered my name and password - nuthin'

Take care all and enjoy the weekend.

Diane :flower:

[Newyear]

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Morning All-
Mggie - good for getting thru a hard day...not an easy thing but you did it!
Rocky - you have some extra stress going on there with all that company- wow- very good and congrats on one week.
Di - enjoy your trip- we finally got some icy weather here in Atl. Have a good time
Kathy - Hey! got your pm - you sound good :l extra smilies for you since you are without :upset:
Sammys--you have a great day - stay warm
Changeling - big congrats on 37 days! You sound good and I'm glad you are here each day - I think that keeps us on task - you know? You are doing great
Mike - thanks for checking in here - I love reading your posts on lta
Rivergirl---wow 34- made it past 30 and still going strong. Congrats on your accomplishment!
Wynot - I'm confident you will make it today so - Yea for One Week!

I have not been out of the house in two days now. I sound like Hulk Hogan - and I feel pretty awful.
First cold I think since I quit smoking and I thought about me smoking even when I had bronchitis. Amazing what we do when addicted. It Hurt to smoke with bronchitis - still did it. Oh, and being sick was a great excuse for hot toddys too. Ah well....sick and icky feeling thank goodness I have nothing to do this weekend!
Have a great Friday everyone!! Some really good success going on here!
Love,
Lisa

[Andy1111]

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Urghhh!
The Bad News: After 18 strarght AF days, I had two drinks last night. Not sure why. Just caved into a stupid craving.
The Good News: I did not get drunk. I poured out the rest of the bottle I had bought. I got a headache, which probably helped me stop. I also stopped because I wasn't having a good time and didn't "need" to drink.

I'm hoping this is a good sign of my progress. This being Friday night, I hope I can go the whole weekend AF and string together another long streak of days. Anyway, I could use a little encouragement and wondering if anyone has had any similar experiences??

[Newyear]

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Hey Andy - I think we all kind of 'test the waters' and just have to have one 'just to see'. I'd say just take it as a learning experience. Next time you think of drinking remember what you wrote here...I got a headache, which probably helped me stop. I also stopped because I wasn't having a good time and didn't "need" to drink.

You are doing great. Just take it as a learning experience and keep going.
And oh, yes...I 'tested the waters' many times before deciding I knew exactly what to expect with drinking and I didn't want it anymore. I felt like you did - didn't like the feeling the next day, didn't feel great and I knew being sober felt better than that.


Lisa

[southernbelle47]

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Di.......heres a "light" to lift you from the blues pit!

Hey Kathy.....I picked this smile for you!

Lisa........I sure hope you feel better soon!

:goodjob: On pouring out that bottle Andy!.....And yes......I have had that stupid thought more than once....the one you're talking about....just one or two, but then felt like crap!

Anyone have superbowl plans? I have steaks, wings and cheese dip planned for this rowdy crew!
THEY will be drinking but I won't....I promise........hold me to it guys!

And everyone here.......you inspire me! Thanks for sharing!

Love,
Nancy
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[Mackeral]

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Hiya All,

Maggie, nice work...It shows its possibe.
Rocky, well Done on not giving in.
Di, Thank god it's Friday indeed and happy travels next week.
Kathy, After your busy week make sure you really relax watching the game on Sunday...A girl after my own heart.
Sammys, it was good speaking to you in chat last night...Have a good day and wrap up those whotsits..
Changling, Big thumbs up for the 37 days...That is a great effort.
Mike, Its really good to see you...Long time no see...The afternoon naps are a godsend if nod off before the cravings really start..
Rivergirl, Big congrats on 34 days...Thats amazing without any meds and cd's alone...Well done.
Diane, for some reason i have to add my name and password twice for the drink trakker to work...Have you tried that?
Lisa, What a bummer...Sorry to hear your feeling so bad...Hope you start feeling better soon.
Andy...2 drinks in 18 days is nothing...And the fact that you poured the rest of the bottle away speaks volhumes....Dont let it hinder your brilliant progress..

To all yet to come have a brilliant day:l