What makes me feel shit....
Well I've been to busy meetings, quiet meetings, women's only meetings....
I can't get the whole sharing thing. I'm a talker, a questioner, I want to know things. Every meet is the same. People talking about how fucked up their life was and how great it is now. Lots of swearing, lots of bad words, quite intimidating sometimes. Call me a prude but I dont want to hear about how x abused his wife and beat up his brother and went to prison. Empower me it does not. Frighten me it does
Yet I can see the good things too. We've got a close friend whose life has been saved by aa. I love his energy and his passion for life. He's the happiest person I know. It has transformed him
I cannot listen to stories of horror and depression. It makes me feel awful, even with the happy endings. I feel uncomfortable in meetings.i just want to go home. I don't get it. It feels stuck in a time warp and unwilling to meet people somewhere in the middle which is where I want to sit...
I will commit, I will work hard, I will reflect and think and talk and listen, but I just wish there was another way except 8pm on a Thursday night.....
I'm not trying to be egative either. I want to do it but I can't seem to fit in. Maybe it's my stubbornness. Maybe it's the autistic thing. Maybe it's not for me. But god I wish it was, but I won't lie to fit in, my self worth says no....
Sorry
P3 x written with love
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