Right lets see if we can make a better job of today's start than yesterday.To say not impressed is probably an understatement.So here we go...tea and coffee on the go..there are also some bagels here if you are quick off the mark.
Right Lilly E...lets start with you....morning trouble and how are you today?Just thought I would quick post you last night to say we are here for you.Just read your second post and also re read the other posts..the issue cropping up seems to be al around the number of days and going back to square one..here we go heavy time!!!!!Firstly, we need to examine what its all about..for me..
1..Improving my health, enjoying my life, being in control of my life,not being a slave to anything that will be detrimental to my enjoyment of what I have, that can be drink drugs or cigs, not waking up feeling crap and a million other reasons.
OK next step is then can i have a drink , and enjoy it and something says nope you have had enough? Answer is no...I aint got an on off drink switch...and have to accept that I cannot drink al
So now to fulfil 1 I realise that I cannot drink al..end of..not for 1 day , 2weeks, 3 months 3 years but ad infinitum.
You then have to turn that round in thinking from a loss to a gain.......and also be proud of the fact that you dont drink..which is something dear Lil in your post made me think..
I discovered that a glass of soda, lime juice, splash of cranberry and a strawberry makes a lovely substitute that looks very much like rose (will remember that if I ever need to not draw attention to the fact I'm not drinking),
Why????I feel quite proud of the fact I dont drink, thats without being smart or smug or anything..and believe me it is a good conversation point..the number of people that say how,why when, wish I could etc you would be amazed!!
Anyway wandering off track here..you are not the same as yoy were 80 days ago..those days have gone..
Using days can be a double edged sword.....good as an indicator or stepping stone, but somewhere along the line they become irrelevant..look at all the posts from people with time in..af since April 2008 etc, not 1234....days af
But like us ..in the early days you take a drink and someone says start again time day 1 thats one powerful kick in the slats just to bin the whole idea and get ratted
Does that make any sense?btw not aimed particularily at you Lil.. you get off to the p store and get a p from ppq..POSITIVE ... though parts apply..but to any one of us
Phewee need a brew after that lot!!
PPQ morning p store keeper..and how are you today??Boy you are dealing with things in a totally different way nowadays..great to see. well done anything on the cards for today??
Morning sunflower how are you today??reread your post...hadnt realised that you used double edged sword too..apologies..will change mine to the sword of Damocles :H
Interesting post..especially the Monday Friday theory..work all week then let our hair down for 2..well those of us who have hair!!suffer and chug along for a couple, then a couple of days hard graft, then get ready for the weekend again.Remember reading a survey on this years ago..Fridays and Mondays were write offs complete, Tuesday was a bit iffy in some cases, so in effect full production was Wednesdays and Thursdays..not bad out of 7 is it? hasten to add that was a traditional working week not reflective on working patterns now.
Present for you..:H:H
If there's somethin' strange in your neighborhood
Who ya gonna call?
(Ghostbusters!)
If it's somethin' weird an' it don't look good
Who ya gonna call?
(Ghostbusters!)
I ain't afraid o' no ghost
I ain't afraid o' no ghost
If you're seein' things runnin' through your head
Who can you call?
(Ghostbusters!)
Morning mollyka..hows about ye? ok? dead on...what are you up to today then anything?? Right brew time everyone..anyone else like one?ok ok not all at once!!!
Morning Ronnie..jeez no point in hanging about is there??
"Hi Lil sorry about the drink etc..btw whens the wedding?? :H:H
So hows your witch free weekend going??ok I hope
Morning YAH..you ok? Take it after a long week its chill time for you?
KY......been watching you...Im the watching you watching..work that one out then!! .slipping into all sorts of posts and forums you ok?yep I would take the tablets..but I've forgotten where I put them!!You ok mate? good
good morning Caysea..I agree with you its about sharing the pitfalls too and raising awareness..after all if you dont know it then how can you deal with it?
Morning Lav.............well quiet weekend is it? feet up relax ,bagel and coffee for you
Kas, how are you today?whats in your world this weekend? anything planned?
Right I am going now...this has taken me some time to write so pray I hit the right button!!!!!! have a great weekend all big hi to all not here..Cantoo hope youre enjoying the mountains
Mick
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