Monday 19 March

[Breez]

Monday 19 March

MORNING ALL!

Popping in to say "Happy Monday".....

gotta go wake the babes for school! ooooowwwwhaaa~how I luv to jump on their bed & quietly sing "rise & shine~time for school" & then throw open the shades & let in the bright sunshine-blinding them. I know evil! LOL.

Have a good one!

[Ripley]

Monday 19 March

Hi Abbers - feeling very low today.

Have been out of circulation for a few days... I'm not that great actually. those who have read some of my longer posts elsewhere know that I have a pretty horrible marriage. Husband came home very drunk last weds and got nasty. Ended up being taken away by police. Now released on bail - can't come to the house or contact me. I have visible injuries this time (cuts and bruises) so this may go to court. My whole life is unravelling. Have told pack of lies to kids to explain daddy's absence. seeing solicitor to commence divorce proceedings on Friday. this has been going on for years, although is is usually verbal not physical. swing between feeling strong/angry and heartbroken/weepy. still.

today should be day 21 AF but last night I had 3 glasses of chardonnay, then tipped the rest of the bottle down the sink and cried myself to sleep. back to AF today. no point going back down that road is there?

cross with myself, but hey.

you all take care now. Kate xx:l

[Kimmy]

Monday 19 March

Kate7173 my friend,

Weep, be angry let it all out just like you did with the wine - I will be here all night on and off but here -

[nattie]

Monday 19 March

Hi Kate,
You were so good to me when I joined I wish I could return the favour & make all your troubles go away.
You sound like you done a comendable thing tipping the rest away, well done. And well done for getting straight back on track & realising it is just a blip.

xx

[lorisunshine]

Monday 19 March

Hi Kate,
my heart is bleeding for you, but you are a strong woman. You probably feel that you have hit rock bottom and I don't know how to help you. There is light at the end of the tunnel, it's small but it is there. It is better to have to live through the horror of the end of a union, then to live with no end to the horror. I am sending good vibes, hugs and kisses and will be doing that all day.
Love Lori

[southernbelle47]

Monday 19 March

Hi everybody.
Special :l s to our Kate!

You are doing the right thing for yourself and your kids. They need a mom who is alive and can look out for them!
Stay strong and know that we all :h you.

Kim is right.....let it all out....pour it out...you will feel so much better after a good cry! "Be still" and know that you are not alone.

Love,
Nancy
AF

[Breez]

Monday 19 March

Sorry to hear Kate....stay strong my dear. You're doing the right thing. We're here for you.

[dilayne]

Monday 19 March

Kate..God speed to the changes that you are strong enough to make for yourself and your children. A marriage is a special thing, but when one partner abuses the other, it is abuse all around, and there is no love in that..you and the kids deserve more than that..your coming here proves that. Breathe...listen to that strong voice inside that knows what to do..one moment at a time.
(hugs)
Dianne

[YoungAtHeart]

Monday 19 March

My heart goes out to you, Kate. Sometimes the verbal/emotional abuse is almost harder to deal with than the physical because it can erode your sense of self from the inside out. When you've got bumps and bruises, you can see how you've been hurt.

I'm so sorry for your pain right now, but so proud for you that you were able to throw out the wine after three glasses.

Try to keep the faith. We are here for you, :h Kate:h .

Hugs,
Kathy:l

[wakingup]

Monday 19 March

Kate, your story breaks my heart. I hope you're doing well this evening.

This is day zero for me but I hope to come back here tomorrow and report that I had a successful 24 hours.

[Cashregister]

Monday 19 March

Dear Kate,
You are doing extremely well at getting through such a tough time - you are amazing (though you probably don't realise it yet).
Take care of yourself and your children, whatever it takes.

Lots of love
Cashy
xxxxx

[Determinator]

Monday 19 March

oh Kate, thinking nothing but tons of positive energy for you....you are obviously strong and it's devastating to hear of such things. Lots of hugs from you friends.

D