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[roxane]

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little dog bravado, gotta love them.

march flies were about in sept/oct when i was at sunshine coast. they are the equivalent of our horse flies. nasty things. once you see one in the house or veranda, you HAVE to kill it. they are super snipers.

[j-vo]

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:rockon:Morning Loamers! Roxy and Ava, you've got a pretty good convo going on here! Roxy, happy day 7!!!!!! And both of you girls rock!

Will reply later. Just a morning check-in. :h

[roxane]

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hi j-vo

hope youre doing well

ive sent ava to sleep with my natterings :H

ive got to goand do something, i have sat on my bum for long enough.

later.

[little beagle]

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Early morning so a quick post. Day 7 Roxy. Yeah!!
I will read back when I get home.

[DreamThinkDo]

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Posted something hours ago - vitally important - lost it; here's a replay.

Little Missy I'm-not-counting-days ordered the Army on Monday already (if not Sunday) to have a cake ready for her on Day 8!

Roxy, brilliant on Day 7! :l:l:l:l:l

[NoSugar]

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available;1625933 wrote: I could have easily drank 100 bottles of wine and wanted 100 more.

Hey, Ava, I saw this and your comment in roll call.

So... good thing you made it yesterday or there would have been Loamers flying to AUS to deal with you... One thing: did you do any posting while you were frustrated and struggling? Once we've made it pretty far, it feels weird to show any uncertainty or weakness on MWO. But you've got to do it. When we think we can handle it on our own, we're screwed, I think. So, you maybe had the will power and resolve this time but please don't think you have to do it that way all the time, ok?? We are here to support you.

xx - NS

[NoSugar]

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roxane;1625975 wrote: this time its different.

Congratulations on your LAST day 7, Roxy!

[Pavati]

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Oh, my goodness, Ava! What NS said. Come find us. This is going to happen to all of us, and we need to post our feelings here! Go read J-Vo's journal on relapse. A plane full of loamers sounds fun, but kicking your arse doesn't. Don't MAKE us come down there...

Phew.

Running to work. Have great days!

[j-vo]

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Pav,
Thanks for sharing what your counselor said. This really helps me so much and make a ton of sense. Why can't we make sense of things like that. So logical and reasonable, but I guess when our emotions stand in the way, it makes that part of our brain unable to process that. However it happens, thank you. You sound relieved as well.

Ava, I hear and feel your frustrations. I like what NS recommended. Come here and talk away, even if you talk for pages and pages, we will read and respond. We love you and these shitty feelings need to be dealt with. Can you think about downloading that "Calm" app that Pav was talking about. It's white letters with light blue background. I think you need to take a few breaks in the day and breath a bit. We can do it together!!!!

Ok, gyn. appt today and off for sushi dinner! Have a great night ladies.

[roxane]

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No sugar!

I only just saw that cake!

Naughty girl, I didn't want to tempt fate by saying I'd done day seven too early. But I can say it now and graciously accept my cake :monalisa:

I must have virtually eaten some because I feel a little sick now.

[available]

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Ahhhhhh ROX ROX ROX Hugs, kisses and hugs and more kisses on your 7 days, you have made me so very proud of you 1 week or 7 days and i am positive there will be many many more to come. You are a strong soul with a big heart and i can see the days rolling on for you as they are for us. Not long till the double digits. Keep smiling today you deserve every smile you give. xxxxx So you didnt feel the need to share that cake Rox? Tut tut.... but a bit early for cake here.

Thanks guys for your concern, i hope i will be fine but as NS says the bigger the days the stronger we think we are. I just want some farking hot water and still nothing. Im feeling very refreshed after a shower though i must say. I have been talking to Mia whom i rang a few times yesterday to vent and she is totally understanding and supportive. I said to Byrd i was thinking of having a break from here and im like wtf, great move that would be NOT. I only have a little car and would take too many trips to pick you all up from the airport and i would have to spring clean my house after the dust storms so it looks good for you girls, so i am not going anywhere and i dont have an arse, i have a very long back. sigh. I will be on here on the weekend, my plan is to stay close and stay home really, well after taking maddy to the vets for her checkup. These last two weeks have been a trial so i need to sit back and relax and that is so not with a wine. Ive got Rox to keep me company at night so that makes it easier also.

I'm ok, not great but ok. Being alone sucks sometimes, coping with all the shit and not drinking to drown it out but its definitely doable and i am not giving my 74 days back to a bottle unless there is a jeannie inside that can make my life cushy and make my brain never want al again.

Happy birthday to the lovely, gorgeous, beautiful, sincere, caring, wonderful Jvo. I wish we could all be sharing your special day with you today drinking non al cocktails and chatting the world away. I hope you are spoilt rotten and have the best day today, you totally deserve it. Big hugs and i love you xxxxx

Well woke up an hour earlier than i should have done and a busy day today at work so will b on and off during the day. Glad everyone is staying strong.

PAT PAT PAT!!!!!

xxxx

[roxane]

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Ava Ava Ava!

Yes seven days! Thanks for your support xxxxxx back to you.

I'm sure I've got enough air miles to come and kick, er, your long back, if needed.

Being alone can indeed suck sometimes, so can being with someone. Just depends what part of the garden you're sitting in at the time.

About that cake, I left the plate out with some crumbs for anyone who wants them. Bits of icing stuck on it too. Enjoy!


Jvo, happy birthday!!

[available]

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You support me also Rox so feelings returned right back at you girl.

I am never alone as such as i have my two boys living with me but alone in the respect of no one my age to hang with. Mind you hanging sometimes does my head in too. I have you guys to chill with just a shame you are all so far away.

I just ate the icing you left and not much i must say. Hope you have some exercise planned for today.

Well better get ready for work. Be on later xx

[roxane]

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It's 7.45 pm here, exercises done. A windswept walk over rolling winter wheat fields.
Took me half an hour to comb the knots out of my hair.

[NoSugar]

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Since I was making one cake, I decided to make two:




Happy Birthday, J-vo! Hope that is about right on the candles...:H:H:H