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[MossRose]

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I am so depressed. I read all of these wonderful posts and they make so happy. I love you all and wish you all the best. It's just that MWO has become like Facebook to me. I have nothing to offer. My life is dull, boring and stupid. Deleted my FB account today - it takes 14 days - I can wait. But in the meantiime I got to see how well everyone is doing - my ex included. Did I mention that I'm really depressed. All the best to you my friends. And I mean that. But I am hopeless. Yes, I'm drinking right now and I really don't care. Did I mention that my life is dull, boring and stupid. I'm done with all of this. Getting sober, really? Why? The people who have hurt me are doing just fine right now. Just check out FB. You'll see.

[NoSugar]

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MossRose;1636092 wrote: I am so depressed. I read all of these wonderful posts and they make so happy. I love you all and wish you all the best. It's just that MWO has become like Facebook to me. I have nothing to offer. My life is dull, boring and stupid. Deleted my FB account today - it takes 14 days - I can wait. But in the meantiime I got to see how well everyone is doing - my ex included. Did I mention that I'm really depressed. All the best to you my friends. And I mean that. But I am hopeless. Yes, I'm drinking right now and I really don't care. Did I mention that my life is dull, boring and stupid. I'm done with all of this. Getting sober, really? Why? The people who have hurt me are doing just fine right now. Just check out FB. You'll see.

Moss, this is alcohol-fueled nonsense. This is not the real you talking. If you come back online and read this, just dump the rest out. You've got to stop doing this to yourself. You deserve so much more.

I'm glad you dumped FB. So much on there is a bunch of BS and at best, only half the story - the "good" part. What you see here is true. It is good to celebrate the successes - partly because they are pretty damn rare. You are not the only person who is struggling to quit or who hates their lives. Even those of us who have had success with not drinking have other things to deal with. People with no problems don't end up on a stop-drinking forum.

Please stop selling yourself short, Moss :l. You know we love and care about you. Now it is time for you to do the same. NS

[available]

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Moss you have plenty to add to us on mwo, i went off mwo in 2011 as i felt i had nothing to contribute, farking nothing, i was a loser, i was not worth the effort of everyone, ffs i could not stop drinking so why bother. why not put myself into an early grave, no one will miss me, what have i contributed to my life and anybody elses? This was what i thought of myself, not what others thought of me, i had gotten to a low low point and could not see my way out. Of course i loved my children, they are my world so why the fark could i not do it for at least them? Then i thought one day that i am not ready to leave this world, as i say i am a long time dead, we all are, so why not make it the best that it can farking be and that for me was to stop drinking, stop feeling sorry for myself and get up and face the day head on. We know how hard it is to stop drinking, been there and done that and got the badge, one now i am very very proud of but i tell you now Moss if you leave MWO your life will only get worse, much worse, there is not feeling better drinking, there are no sunny days, there is a life of self loathing, depressing and sadness. Fuck your ex husband he is a loser, a tosser a FWAD, you deserve so much better, your girls deserve a mother, like mine did. Prove to those arseholes who probably are not doing "fine" how "fine" you can be. You and only you can do this Moss and i would desperately hate to see you leave here and if you do it is totally your decision but we are definitely here to love and support you as we know you are worth every single breath you take daily. We may be cyber friends but we understand each other, we are and have been in exactly the same boat and we are still trying to not rock the boat daily as we dont want to fall out.

Please please dont leave Moss. Fark FB, meaningless dribble most of it but MWO rocks. big hugs Moss xxxxx

[MossRose]

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NS - thank you. I really do believe I am beyond hope. But thank you. I will always appreciate your kindness.

[MossRose]

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Ava - thank you. I don't like myself very much tonight, but I read everything you said. You are my friend.

[MossRose]

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Your responses mean a lot to me. And this is the wrong forum, so I apologize. Carry on, ladies. I love you all. I'll figure this out. Sorry to be a bother.

[NoSugar]

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MossRose;1636101 wrote: NS - thank you. I really do believe I am beyond hope. But thank you. I will always appreciate your kindness.

As long as you are alive there is hope. And we want you to be alive - and healthy. But you have got to stop drinking. Only you can do this but we can help you if you let us. Please dump out the rest right now and tomorrow, begin once more. As long as you are trying, you haven't failed, and you have the chance to build the life you deserve. Don't let the people who hurt you win, Moss. Dump it out, ok?

[NoSugar]

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This is not the wrong place to post at all, Moss. The whole point is to help ourselves and others quit drinking. All the rest is bonus. I'm so glad that you spoke up. That means that the real you wants to stop but needs some help with that. Sadly, all I can offer is typed words. I wish I could come over and dump it out. Then help you settle in for the night. But you'll need to do that - and I know you can.

[available]

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Moss you are never a bother and what is the right forum? We all want to stop drinking but we are here to definitely support you as much as we can. Im with NS if i could find a way to get there i would dump the bloody al out asap.

[j-vo]

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Moss,
We want you on this journey with us. We are hear to lean on one another in good times and bad. That's what friends are for, and this is what MWO is all about. Get some sleep, hydrate, and please come back. We can talk tomorrow. We love you!

[scottish lass]

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Moss - the others have said it - most of us have been where you are, but the worst thing you could do is to leave - hopefully you are getting some rest of a sort, and I know how bad you will feel in the morning, but come back and start again. I have had lord knows how many fresh starts I have made - if there was a prize for that I would be one of the leaders. It is nothing to be ashamed of, see my signature line - I believe this. I look forward to hearing from you tomorrow:l:l

I was coming to post about feeling good this evening, even though it is the end of the weekend:upset:
Bought a bird bath for my friendly hummingbirds - well not very friendly - aggressive little buggers, but I love them - and some tomato plants and a little colour....

[Dottie Belle]

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MR dont leave....we need you....

[Pavati]

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Moss!

This is the RIGHT thread, because it is the thread you posted on. You are in a bad way right now, but there is no hole so deep you can't get out of it unless you give up trying.

OF COURSE everyone on Facebook looks perfect. Do you think I post when my DH and I fight? When my son gets in trouble? When I eat a pint of ice cream? When I was crying in my bed from alcoholic anxiety as my family went on with their lives? Here is a funny article: How to Make Your Life Seem Awesome on Facebook.

You've certainly seen here that none of us is perfect - far from it.

We've got your back. Come back and post - we'll help you.

xo

[j-vo]

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Oh, Moss, FB stands for False Bullshit. Really. I read so much on there and all it is is a place for attention seekers, although I do like a funny post here and there, and love the dogs and babies posts. But when I read about my cousin going on vacation every other month, I wanna just throw up. Nobody has a perfect life because there is no such thing. It's only perfect when we leave this world (well, those are my beliefs). Anyhow, if it makes you feel better to not read all the false bullshit, then glad you aren't going to login anymore. I hope we hear from you tomorrow, lovely loamer. xxxooo

[j-vo]

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Pav, I'm glad you had a great weekend! You sound great.