im reading an autobiography by clarissa dickson wright (shes well known over here and has coincidentally just died aged 66), she went through alcoholism and finally rehab. she mentioned about how she refused to release/show any emotion but finally broke down.
she explained how it was like a defrosting chicken. as it defrosted, emotions were released. slowly. if they all came out at once, they would be unmanageable. it would take a while for the chicken to defrost for various reasons; how deep they are, how many, our ability to cope etc.
this makes sense to me and explains why it can take sometimes years for some people to finally feel levelled.
thinking after 3 months, 6 months, a year even that we could stiill have emotional repercussions is a hard fact to deal with but knowing that it is more gentle than sudden avalanche helps to know.
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