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[j-vo]

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NS,
Funny you should ask that. I've been feeling emotionally great, but physically, the last few days, I have very little energy, a dull headache, and lots of tension in my shoulders and it hurts. I keep pushing myself forward, but maybe I shouldn't! I have to stay after work today for training on the new tablets they're giving to us. I can't miss out on a piece of technology. Don't know when that'll happen again! Then DS has a baseball game - makeup from yesterday. I'm afraid if I go home after work, I won't go back out to see the game. Thanks NS.

[NoSugar]

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You need more than a hug, j-vo, you need a massage .

Do only what you have to do then rest, ok? I think AL knows to wait and whisper to us when we're worn down in one way or another so all that self-care that seems sort of selfish really isn't - it's essential!

[little beagle]

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Quick post at work. Had to turn vacuum off for a minute. I am feeling so much better. Whew. Last sugar binge for me!!

[giraffe1234]

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LB your 1 year anniversary!!!! A full year - my word.
Wow, I am so happy for you, and I admire your fortitude and perseverance.
You are an inspiration to me.
Well done dear LB!!!
xox

[Marylou123]

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LB,

Happy Sober Birthday!!

[little beagle]

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This has been a very emotional time. Remembering last year. Can't believe this year has gone by so fast. Trying to set goals for the coming year. Thanks guys SO much.
I know that making things too easy for others will never get them to that point of really wanting to do something about their problem. Like strapping a mattress to your back. Every time they fall they have something soft to land and on you get crushed under all that weight.
What made me quit was facing the consequences of my actions. You just can't take that away from an addict.
I bet each and every one of you knows exactly what I am talking about.
J-vo I am sorry you are so tired. I know what you mean.
I love my bone Jane.

[j-vo]

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Know what you mean LB. For sure. Glad you're feeling better!

Went to training after work, then to baseball game. It was in the high 40's and windy, no sun, so chilled to the bone halfway through the game. So...I left! Went in hot tub to warm and relax my tense muscles. Felt really good. Now I'm sitting here relaxing and contemplating a sick day for tomorrow. Just a mental health day.

Hope everyone has a great night, and again, LB, so proud of you!

Nar's big 50 (birthday) is tomorrow. Another celebration tomorrow!

[little beagle]

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So many of us are turning 50 this year. What wonderful time to be af.
yes NS you are right. I could stop drinking if I slipped. I just don't want to go through that ever again. It's easier to stay connected here and work on my daily issues with the rest of you ladies.
I'm saving my party thread for bedtime.

[NoSugar]

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little beagle;1652803 wrote:
I'm saving my party thread for bedtime.

It will be a perfect bedtime story! Everyone loves the heroine .

[MossRose]

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LB - thinking of you. Your story inspires me. Sending all the love and care your way that I can muster. Which is a lot!! xxxxxxx

Had one of the weirdest days of my life tonight. My ex-husband (no. 1 - father of my 3 children) and I haven't talked in over ten years. There has been bad blood between us for 20 years. He called me tonight and we ended up talking for over 1-1/2 hours. It was all good. I can't say that everything is miraculously resolved between us, but it's a start. My sons will be thrilled. This sober thing is working out quite well for me. If I had been drinking tonight, there is no doubt I would have torn into him. But I didn't. And then he didn't. hmmm...this makes me happy.

Love you all. Wow - who would have thought it possible? I am thankful.

[NoSugar]

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j-vo;1652792 wrote: ]Went to training after work, then to baseball game. It was in the high 40's and windy, no sun, so chilled to the bone halfway through the game. So...I left! Went in hot tub to warm and relax my tense muscles. Felt really good. Now I'm sitting here relaxing and contemplating a sick day for tomorrow. Just a mental health day. You know your son would choose a healthy, happy sober mom over one who doesn't take care of herself and ends up escaping with a drink. I'm so glad you're looking out for yourself, J, and how nice to plan a MH day in advance rather than calling in "sick" after a night of too much drinking. Good for you!

MossRose;1652814 wrote: This sober thing is working out quite well for me. If I had been drinking tonight, there is no doubt I would have torn into him. But I didn't. And then he didn't. hmmm...this makes me happy.
Love you all. Wow - who would have thought it possible? I am thankful.

What a great story, Moss. I hate any kind of discord or conflict (and I know that drinking is one way to escape it ) but how nice to start healing some old wounds instead. I'm so happy for you :l.

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Hi Loamers

LB i am glad you are feeling a bit better in yourself. Whats that stupid saying ..."life wasnt meant to be easy". Like you lovely i dont ever want to do a day 1 again, it would take a lot more strength and grit and determination and this journey is a challenge without having to start again. I did congratulate you before on your 1 year thread but i am truly glad i am on this trek with you, you teach me so much and are willing to give and share yourself with us and your family. You are one strong chicky babe for sure.

Moss the anger issues seem to be put in their place when sober dont they? Glad you could have that conversation with the girls dad and for an hour and a half wow. If the father of my first two children rang i would rip him to shreds, arsehole he is....has not seen them for over 15 years and i can never understand why as i have never ever stopped him. Anger Linda Anger!. Gone gone gone!

Jvo look after yourself, body and mind girl. I know i was bone tired after a few weeks, hit me like a brick and the headaches were atrocious also.

NS you would be away now? Enjoy yourself and dont work too hard.

Nar today in Aus is your 50th so happy birthday lovely lady. I hope you get spoilt rotten and enjoy your first sober birthday? Maybe not but this one is extra special. Hugs from afar.

Well i am off to the drs today, feel like total crap, i was hoping to feel better though i did clean the kitchen yesterday. Dogs getting groomed on Sunday now and suitcase still looking at me. I may have to try the wet socks with vicks in a bag? Was that what it was NS?

love you all and thinking of you Pav, SL, Mary, Giraffe, Humble, Jane, Rox. Im sure there is someone else blah!!!! sorry xx

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I'm still around, Ava. The cure was to put cotton socks on your feet and soak in the hottest water possible. Then you and your hot, wet feet go to bed . (I put plastic bags over them so it wouldn't be such a mess.) I didn't remember to try it until I had been sick for 3 days so when it seemed to help (and it really did!), I wasn't sure if the effect was real or the virus had just run its course. I'm going to try it immediately the next time I get a cold or sore throat. Who here told us about that?? Hope you Dr. has an idea for you - ours usually don't for this type of thing other than OTC symptom relief meds. Good luck!

[little beagle]

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Ava feel better. Thank you.

[Dottie Belle]

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ava maybe we have the same crud....I did go to the docs on Monday and got antibiotics and OTC decongestant but I still feel like crud.
Hope u get some better meds...let me know how u are doing.