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Hi Girls,
Just to clarify...I've never bitch-slapped anyone, ever! Now today, I almost did, but only in my head. A woman I work "near" not directly with but used to is such a flippin bitch, angry all the time, screams at kids she doesn't even know. Well, she did it today as I was passing by. She was yelling at one of my cute girls, who had on a pair of jean shorts and a cute top. Very appropriate compared to some things I see daily. Well, she told her to march right down to the principal's office. I told her in a not so nice tone of voice that there are so many other kids that have holes the size of Texas in their pants, pants that you can see through and view their pretty little thongs! She knew I was mad, but when the girl came back upstairs, I told her nothing had been wrong with her outfit and I stuck up for her after she left. I told her some old people are just miserable and that sometimes people take out their anger on the pretty girls like her. She said, "I just wanna do this..." and she hugged me. So taking anger, loneliness, and feelings of insecurities on others happens everywhere. We have to learn how to deal with it and them. I probably shouldn't have had the tone of voice with that woman, and I thought about it after the fact. But I'll try and remember next time.
Jane, I had your quote in my signature line, then it told me I wasn't allowed to have over two lines in my signature so I took it out when I put my date in. I'm going to try and add it again.
Nar, love your signature lines!!! Keep 'em all! You sound so upbeat and happy!
Hi Girls,
Just to clarify...I've never bitch-slapped anyone, ever! Now today, I almost did, but only in my head. A woman I work "near" not directly with but used to is such a flippin bitch, angry all the time, screams at kids she doesn't even know. Well, she did it today as I was passing by. She was yelling at one of my cute girls, who had on a pair of jean shorts and a cute top. Very appropriate compared to some things I see daily. Well, she told her to march right down to the principal's office. I told her in a not so nice tone of voice that there are so many other kids that have holes the size of Texas in their pants, pants that you can see through and view their pretty little thongs! She knew I was mad, but when the girl came back upstairs, I told her nothing had been wrong with her outfit and I stuck up for her after she left. I told her some old people are just miserable and that sometimes people take out their anger on the pretty girls like her. She said, "I just wanna do this..." and she hugged me. So taking anger, loneliness, and feelings of insecurities on others happens everywhere. We have to learn how to deal with it and them. I probably shouldn't have had the tone of voice with that woman, and I thought about it after the fact. But I'll try and remember next time.
Jane, I had your quote in my signature line, then it told me I wasn't allowed to have over two lines in my signature so I took it out when I put my date in. I'm going to try and add it again.
Nar, love your signature lines!!! Keep 'em all! You sound so upbeat and happy!
) wouldn't be paying a share of the bottles of wine. Awhile ago, this kind of attention to my non-drinking status would have made me very uncomfortable and somewhat embarrassed - mostly because I wasn't yet completely secure in my non-drinker identity. I probably would have started spouting lame excuses about why I wasn't drinking right now... Last night I (jokingly!) said I might start drinking again just to avoid all this fuss and then explained that I wouldn't mind just splitting the bill evenly - a fourth of the cost of 2 bottles of wine is a very small price to pay for quality time with good friends. They of course would have none of that. Either way - whether I end up paying more than my share or I have to put up with my non-drinking being a focus for a bit - is ok.
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