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    Patrice, I started reading my son's required for for English class (didn't finish before he turned in) about when Phnom Penh was overtaken by the military in the 70's. Now I can't remember the name of the book, as I want to finish it! All of the people had to leave the city and go into the country.

    LB, I'm so happy for you that your business is booming and blooming!

    LC, so much to learn here. I love how we can bounce these topics off one another. Remember, feeling great is just as good an excuse to get your butt on here as feeling bad. It's a sober community and we need each other. When one is down, the other is up. So glad you're back.

    Hi Kailey!

    Roxy, great post about delaying -gives you a better chance to change the reward. Excellent advice. It makes us delay that thought and that craving goes away if we just give it time.

    Daisy, replied to your post in NN. So glad you got over that last night!

    Jane, social phobia almost put me in the nut house. For many years I couldn't sit in meetings without the humiliation of blotching up all over my face and body. I would have to get up and leave every single time. Yes, people talked about it. Yes, I hated myself, became very depressed, didn't want to live. Tried every medication on the market. It was a combination of growing out of it, gaining more respect for myself, that the severity of it decreased. I still have problems from time to time, but am getting a better handle on everything, especially without alcohol. I need to listen to that podcast on "Addictive Personalities." And what I especially found interesting is the 4,5, and 6's to be normal moods. Maybe the "blah" feeling I was feeling is just a normal feeling? We don't have extreme moods and that's good, it's more balanced. Yeah, every now and then it's fun to be in a 9 or 10, but getting there won't be by way of alcohol. And it's not ok to be at 1 or 2, but sometimes it's gonna happen as long as it's not chronic or long-term. I'm gonna think on that one more. Thanks!

    Have a great day ladies!
    Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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      Hi everyone! Jane and Jvo - not sure if you saw it but there is a thread on here "get me out - get me going" - you might want to check it out not sure if it would be helpful but sounds like it was intended to help give ideas for dealing with just these sorts of struggles.

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        Quick check in...

        Jane, J-Vo, LB, etc - the Get me up... thread was started by Spirit after a conversation we had on another thread about not wanting to get up and out, but being so happy once we did. I DEFINITELY feel like that a lot, and I consider myself a social person.

        I'm off to work. Catch you all this evening, although I have another work party, so it may be tomorrow.

        xo
        Pav

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          Hi!

          Just realized today is day 200 for me, and of course I wanted to celebrate with you.

          Fucking amazing.

          xo
          Pav

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            Wow, that is Fucking Amazing, Pav! Congratulations I am so very happy for you and happy for myself too, to have you here helping and advising and sharing with all of us!!

            I feel kind of funny (nosy) asking this, but you reference the Thanksgiving Massacre every so often - I have looked around but have not been able to find anything describing what happened...would you mind sharing? Every reminder of what can go wrong if you try to moderate is a good reminder!

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              did you say 200?

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                Busy day again here - but checking in to say so very well done to dear Loamer Pavati! I am so proud of you - you have kept going in a strong, quiet, calm manner that is so good to watch. I am happy for you and look forward to your next achievement - and to carry on walking in your footsteps...:l

                Jane - this pool guy is definately appealing:H
                “The only courage you will ever need is the courage to live the life you want"

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                  Way to go PAV!!!! 200 Days! Yahoo!! F'n Rights!So happy for you dear Pavati. I have loved getting to know you over the past year or so and look forward to plenty of posts in the future. I have learned a TON from you...ie "just take it off the table" I always think of that and I think of you

                  Jane, WHOA!! That pool boy is delish!. I love your picture "sober is the new black" how good is that?

                  G man doesn't need a pool girl SL, he has us! lol
                  Right G?

                  Gals, I read your posts Roxanne, Daisy, NS, J-Vo, Life and they were really good. I like the delayed gratification saying you had Roxy. Also, drinking when you are happy. That is a problem for me. That is when I really want to drink, I get all pumped up and am excited and then I think "I want a drink!"
                  I have to keep vigilant about that and will post about it. I try and not get too excited about things because that is where it leads me.

                  Talk later!
                  Narilly

                  "Nothing in this World Can take the place of Persistence"
                  "You can have the life you want OR you can Drink"

                  AF April 12, 2014

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                    Pav, congratulations on those 200 days. You've helped people behind you and ahead of you (including ME!) while helping yourself. I'm so glad you're here :l.

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                      PAV!!! 200 days is such an accomplishment. I remember clearly your first posts and looked forward to reading what you had to say. I still so look forward to hearing from you. You have done the work consistently for 200 days, have brought so much to many, many people by sharing your experiences--you've given so much thought, love, time, wisdom, understanding to your fellow MWO'ers. And what a hunk you got from Jane! Damn! :h

                      Nar, cracked me up the note to Mr. G! Maybe we should hang out a picture of all of us in bikinis as incentive..? Don't you have one of those, Jane?

                      I am a bit out of it, I know, but what does "sober is the new black" mean?

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                        Now I got it! Sober is the New Black. love it.

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                          Parvati,
                          Congratulations on 200 days
                          You are a real inspiration here!
                          Xx
                          Pat

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                            Pav, soooo well doe! Really happy for you!
                            IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO BE WHAT YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN
                            Relapse starts long before the drink is drunk!!.Fresh Start!

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                              Pav 200 fucking days, didnt that spring up on us? it feels pretty damn good doesnt it to actually finally realise that YES we are doing it and YES its getting easier and YES we will be sober forever. 200 fucking af days. How many bottles have you no drank?

                              Its been a pleasure to share this with you my friend and many many more days to come. we still have 2016 in August to celebrate 1000, now thats a mission we have to plod along to get to but we will get to those days. Its a plan.

                              Kailey so happy that your thoughts have changed for your trip. The inner fighting is a killer and now its gone you can plan all those nice things to do in the motel room, like relax, relax relax.

                              All i can say is TFIF. Been a week where i have wanted to kill and maim a workmate with aspergers which has been a tad out of control this week. Sometimes its not fun working with him and coming home to Liam with ADHD but thats life. Sometimes i "know why i drank" lol. Now i just come home and shut my door to the crap thats outside. Leaving work early today to take Liam to the dentist, his teeth are shocking from his crack addiction so he gets subsidised to get them fixed.

                              See you all this afternoon. LB hello hello, i hope you are ok girl.

                              xxx
                              AF free 1st December 2013 - 1st December 2022 - 9 years of freedom

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                                :wd::groupluv::applaud::kudos:Pav... Freaking, Friggin, F-ing Awesome, my Dear Pav!!!!!!! I'm so happy and proud of you!

                                Frances and Jane, what is weird about social phobia is that people like us are not necessarily introverts. Many people confuse that we are quiet and don't want to be bothered being out. The problem is just the opposite. I want to go, I want to sit with people at lunch, I want to be comfortable at a meeting, but for some reason, I don't think I'm worthy enough to say anything intelligent, even at lunch. But....but....I've come a long way with that. I'm beginning to know that i do have good things to say, and that when I do say something stupid, I know that I can laugh right along with everyone else and not feel humiliated as I used to do. Social phobia/anxiety is a strange condition, but as I've studied it for many years, I know why I have it. This condition fit like a glove considering my life's circumstances. But not to worry about that now, as I'm moving ahead and onto better things!
                                Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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