Hi Girls,
Snuck off to the lobby for a bit as it's quite cloudy outside right now and i'm missing ya girls.
Nar, hugs to you as you had the beast talking to you. You're so strong and glad you got through that.
Ginger, congrats on your 60!
Some observations I've made on this lovely vacation that I wanted to share...
Being away from MWO will never happen for me. I need to stay connected to you all and be reminded daily of the struggles and pain that alcohol caused me. The community of people is priority in my recovery. Being away for this short amount of time made me a bit lonely. I'm so glad it doesn't have to be a full-time thing and we can talk, post, skype anytime we want to. Thanks for being here for me.
There are not a whole lot of drunks out there like us. Yes, most of the people here are drinking girlie drinks in the pool, but if it were me drinking, I'd be saying two extra shots of tequila please, kind of like my SIL is doing. So even though our numbers are low, I'm glad we don't have to always suffer the consequences of alcohol. All we have to do is not drink and we'll feel normal like everyone else. Everyone has something, and this is our thing, so being responsible adults, we are taking care of this beast once and for all so we can live a happy life.
My SIL is one of us. My FIL died of cirrhosis of the liver and I see she has the gene, as everything that she says and does, I would have done/have done. It makes me feel relieved in a way that I"m not like that anymore. I've seen her drunk several times, needing to have the straight tequila in her glass, not wanting the night to end, begging hubby to have just one more or go to the adult disco not for dancing but she knows she can get more drinks. I'm watching how alcohol has a complete hold on her and I'm glad i"m seeing this. She would never admit this, and after the first day, she never questioned me about my drinking. I"m sure she's said things behind my back, but I can't control that and I don't really care. Most of DH's family loves me, and I would say all except SIL is not one to love anyone.
It's a wonderful feeling getting up hangover free and enjoying the days activities without having to pour alcohol down my throat. It's liberating for sure.
I have noticed a slight tug here and there. But that passes and then I"m fine. They have different shows here at night and last night was a rock theme. Great music and I enjoyed it with a straight mind. I was able to sing along, wave my arms, and thoroughly enjoy it.
The kayacking is phenomenal. I was out there by myself for about 45 minutes. Not only did it work my arms really well, but just sitting on the ocean by myself with the water sparkling was such a peaceful site.
This is not reality, but this is/could have been a really difficult time if I let it. I look for beauty, which isn't hard to see. I feel the beauty. My senses are in tune to everything. I've never exercised on vacation in my life, and I have done something physically challenging everyday. Yea, I've been eating lots too, but hey, if you would see all the good food here, you wouldn't pass it up either!
Ok, going to get myself moving here. Love you all, and I'll be back on MWO as a supportive member next week. I'm sorry it's all about me here, but just wanted to you to know how I've been feeling. You're in my thoughts.
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