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    Of course you wouldn't get thrown off the tread, TT, even if anyone were in a position to do such a thing! I don't consciously think about it either - but, like you, little thoughts of freedom pop into my head several times each day. For instance, today it occurred to me that it is lovely to visit my parents and not be trying to hide part of myself from them (like a misbehaving teenager at age 57!). When I bought groceries this morning for some meals I'm making to freeze for them, I noticed the separate but attached liquor store and was glad not to be stopping by there on my way out. So many of my decisions and actions were dictated by the demands of addiction, I felt trapped. I'm glad that I still celebrate the freedom several times a day.

    I hope whatever is causing your headache goes away so you can enjoy what is left of your weekend, NS

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      Hi everyone,

      I've scene Stomp and it was really cool. How many sounds can come from ordinary objects. Very innovative and creative. Have fun Jane.

      If you don't mind me asking TT what type of your health scare did you have? And are you Okay now since stopping drinking? Since quitting smoking I had to have an ex-ray of my lungs for residency and was relieved to see I was okay.

      I'm good. Feeling better and better mentally. Coping more calmly now. I think of unhung as a physical feeling. Not feeling sick and tired. I still feel tired.. but not in the same way. Now I'll feel like I need sleep.. and look forward to bedtime. I feel free from a cycle I was in of drinking to cope with things that actually are not even an issue sober.
      AF January 7, 2018

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        Choices it had to do with the liver (don't want to give details here) but was serious. My liver is still dodgy and I have to keep this monitored and watch what medications I take and be careful to try not to get viral infections etc because of the immune system. This didn't just stop with quitting and eating well - and supplements had little impact. I seem to be OK after three years but I wouldn't say it's perfect.

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          I'm glad you seam to be OK now TT. It sounds scary. I'm glad you are taking care of yourself. Did you since something was wrong or was it a routine check up? I'm only asking, because I wonder if I should have some tests run.
          AF January 7, 2018

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            Its always hard to tell with the liver. I dont want to talk too much about my specifics here but it was a combination of sensing something, having severe pains, other symptoms and tests. I always advise people who are heavy drinkers to have tests from their doctor because there can also be damage with no symptoms. Many people however seem to be in denial about this part of the body. The worst thing was the uncertainty between having tests and then waiting to get an appointment with a specialist - and then it being so slow for my liver to recover (despite living a very careful lifestyle). Actually I just had blood tests last week and will see the doc soonish.
            As long as you avoid AL you should be OK but its probably good to have some tests next time you see your doc. You are much younger than me and I had packed a lot of AL into my system over nearly 40 years of drinking. Packed a lot of other things in too though and its not all bad by any means!!

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              Thanks TT. I'll ask about it next time I see GP when I talk about my drinking problem. I haven't made the appointment but getting closer to building up the courage. I'm glad your better. I think I more just would like to know how my body is doing. To just be aware of where I'm at.
              AF January 7, 2018

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                Good Morning,

                TT, I'm glad you're recovering. I know that livers regenerate, thankfully. And I was a drinker that I felt the dull pain in my right side, couldn't sleep on my right side for long because I would feel pain. I don't feel it anymore, but I don't ever want to take a chance on feeling that again. It caused lots of fear in me as I'd seen my FIL die of cirrohsis.

                Today is 90 days for me!!! I'm gonna celebrate by going to the gym and taking mom to the movies. We're going to see Mockingjay Part 2 finally. Loved the books and movies. Jennifer Lawrence is such a great actress.

                Have a good day.
                Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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                  Congrats on 3 months Jvo! You are cooking with gas! xoxoxo
                  AF since January 7, 2014 *Never, never, never give up. ~ Winston Churchill*

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                    There has been a bright spot in my mom's health. In the last 4 days, she's had a decrease in her mucus, so she's not choking. OMG. This is huge as it makes her comfort level increase so much. And she hasn't lost weight in a week. She hasn't gotten the machine for breathing yet, which also will help her mucus, but will be doing three treatments a day when she does. Comfort level is what I'm hoping for. I know that this will progress, but I'm relieved to know that right this moment, she's feeling good.
                    Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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                      Wonderful J-Vo on 3 months. You are doing really well on the AF front although you have your Mum's illness to deal with. Hope you enjoyed the movie Jane. Its work here today for me but I am may be able to do this from home. My daughter has promised to reorganize one of our bookshelves. I have been ruthless about throwing out paperbacks and books we never open - but Mr GB will not get rid of 6000 years (just joking on the number) of old computer textbooks - the heavy thick ones. He never looks at them but refuses to let them go - but I just have to live with that. Its not important.

                      Am watching a great DVD series called The Legacy - its Danish and about a family (not a crime story). But you won't find it on the usual networks.

                      Hugs to everyone!

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                        Cross-posted J-Vo. Great to see a little relief for your Mum and this must be so welcome for her and for you and the family

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                          Hi Gloamers:

                          Our doggie died this weekend. A very sad time, yet not once did I think of alcohol to ease the pain. Because I wasn't drinking I was able to visit him twice in the middle of the night, and be present when hard decisions needed to be made. This sadness is a part of the human experience, and I am grateful that he was in our lives. I am also grateful that alcohol is out of mine.

                          I can't hang out much this morning but wanted to check in.

                          xo
                          Pav
                          Last edited by Pavati; January 18, 2016, 02:03 AM.

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                            Pav, I'm so sorry about your doggie. I know the pain of that and I'm thinking of you.:hug:
                            Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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                              Pav I'm so sorry. I know how painful losing a good friend and family member is.
                              Congratulations J-vo on 90 days. Glad your mom is doing so well right now.
                              Safe travels J-vo and NS.
                              Jane I too feel a bit of a cold coming on. Sorry your's is so nasty. Yuck. Take care of yourself. Love Red's pictures.
                              No matter how far you go or how fast you run, you can't get away from yourself. ....said at an AA meeting. It stuck with me.

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                                Pav, Thinking of you...xx
                                AF since January 7, 2014 *Never, never, never give up. ~ Winston Churchill*

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