Ladies on a Mission: The Official Site

[Guitarista]

I have pushed people away and pulled out of close, gr8 relationships a few times. Why? So i could drink alone in relative 'peace.' My addiction was more powerful than love for others and myself. It was more powerful than my self love and self respect. I believe your hubby knows his best and true path deep down LB, but as we all well know, it is another matter taking the steps to our truth and best self. It is possible and i hope he can pull it together sooner rather than later.

As for you, take good care of yourself. I am one of many here and no doubt in your life who believe in you and think you're just ace.

All ok here folks. My spirit and spark cannot be extinguished it seems. :happy2:

[NoSugar]

Feels good to have the G back in GLoamers :hug:.

[treetops]

Good to see you Mr G. Can you please pop over the Tasman and clean up my house (the pigsty) for me?

[Guitarista]

Feels good to have the G back in GLoamers :hug:.

Good to see you Mr G. Can you please pop over the Tasman and clean up my house (the pigsty) for me?

Thanks Ladies.

No probs TT. I'll bring the Makita hand vac i picked up on special from the auto parts store. A quick run over those hard to get to places such as kitchen benches and the front of the couch and the joint will look brand new.

[little beagle]

Good to see you Mr. G.

[j-vo]

Lb, love your hair! It looks gorgeous.

G, so happy you're back. :happy2::hug:

It's a beautiful spring like day here. Gonna work out and get a few things accomplished today, but not too much!:happy2:

[little beagle]

Rain rain rain here. Dogs are going crazy. Bleh!!

[little beagle]

Wow. Really slow on here.

[NoSugar]

Sure is, LB. Maybe everyone is doing really well or getting and giving support elsewhere. I guess the important thing is that if anyone ever needs a friend, someone will be around.

I'm glad you had a better day today. I hope your class tomorrow goes well and makes you feel STRONG!

All's well here. Frankly, I can't believe I ever did anything as stupid as drink the life half out of myself. I'm not sure what I was trying to escape but glad I don't feel the need to anymore.

:heart: NS

[STEADFAST]

Hi Gloamers (including G-Man, yay!)

Not much to report; life continues, unhung. Have been reading back, and want to say i really appreciate what folk have to say; so many good posts. :love:

Stay well everyone,
Steady

[narilly]

Hi Steady, nice to see you. And nice to see you G Man. Glad you cannot be extinguished!

I am enjoying an Un Hung Monday morning. Work is not so bad when I am feeling good. Its amazing how my life has changed to the point where drinking seems really weird for me. I don't think of it anymore like I used to. It Is so good.

Lil B, I am so sorry you are going through this. I am thinking about you. Just get through it, eventually it will not hurt so much. It just takes time which really sucks.

Have a good one everybody.

[treetops]

Morning everyone its Tuesday here - warm and wet. Sorry I haven't been posting much - this happens for no particular reason. All is OK here and yes Nar, great to have AL removed from the evils of my universe.
Thinking of you LB - hope the weekend was not too painful and you found some relief - sounds like your dogs keep you busy and are a source of lots of affection.
I did a clean-out of a cupboard (such is the excitement in my life) and chucked a lot of really really past their used-by dates. You know herbal teas that look like dried up sawdust. Does anyone else have the herbal tea graveyard - those packets you though you would try,looked enticing at the time and were yuk. We found one packet of vanilla rooibus tea that my family demanded I chuck immediately - it smelt so so bad. Even the cat gave me strange looks!

[j-vo]

Good for you, TT, being productive like that.

Don't wanna be a downer but it's how I'm feeling right now. I think I'm afraid of what I'll see when I go to Florida next week. I got out my clarity book and will start reading.

LB, I've been thinking of you. Good to see you Nar and steady.

Almost bedtime. That's all folks!

[NoSugar]

When do you leave for FL, J-vo? I can see why you're anxious about going but I bet you'll be glad when you're there and able to help your dad, spend time with your mom. This is just such a tough time for your family.

And for you, LB. I'm sorry two such special people have heartbreaking problems right now. xx, NS

[little beagle]

I am Sore! But Hubby's mental face is a mass of bruises and bloody pulp. Punching those punching bags for an hour is an amazing workout. Wow.
J-vo you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are so wonderful. Giving so much support at this time.
Steady good to see you.
Narilly hubby and I talked a little today. I just don't even like him right now. So much anger and frustration that it's crazy.
But I am getting through. The only way out is through. Drinking would only greatly delay this process. So glad I don't drink.