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[little beagle]

Thank you NS. My skies are slowly clearing and the sun is beginning to shine.

[Choices]

Hi everyone, I haven't read back. But posting to stay accountable.

[little beagle]

Quick check in here too. Goodnight.

[Guitarista]

Slightly overcast here with light rain and sunny patches. :happy2:

[NoSugar]

Slightly overcast here with light rain and sunny patches. :happy2:

There's a threat of a MAJOR THUNDERSTORM here but I'm not going to be bothered by it :wink:. Plus, they never last very long.

[little beagle]

Happy sober Friday everyone.

[treetops]

Sorry I haven't posted much this week - its just been so busy. I hope everyone is enjoying their soberness - although some are having lots of difficulties to deal with too.
I am also going through one of my uncertain phases regarding MWO. I need this contact and this group but it feels as if MWO has really lost some of its zing. I just cant be bothered with the circular rehashing of 'she-said', 'he-said' on some of the threads (not this one). There - I said it! But I suspect that I am not the only one who feels this way. I used to like to read outside my home base but its annoying, depressing to do that sometimes these days. And sometimes its just so quiet on our thread.
I am sure this is just a hiatus for me. I dont want to leave MWO and I dont want to join other websites. Any thoughts from the Gloamers?

[Guitarista]

Hiya everyone,

I dunno TT. I just ignore any shenannigans on other threads. Been a silly circus in my eyes for some time. It's a minor distraction for me, because i don't read it. The bigger issue though is folks wanting to try the meds route and walking into the aggro. They will find their way. In other news, a beaut beach run/hike today about an hour from my joint down the coast. Here are some pics to hopefully lift yer spirits.....click on pics.

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[NoSugar]

What a beautiful place to be, Mr G! I might even be motivated to run if I had a beach like that nearby. And I'd love to hike in the forested area. Lucky man!

TT, you better articulated what I was trying to say the other day. It's not the fault of any particular person but a thread (or forum) fade without active participation. Like anything in life, I guess, we get out of it what we put in but for something like this, it takes a critical mass of interested people making an effort. I've been posting more in the Army lately because people are really engaged there. Like Mr G, I ignore threads that aren't supportive - what's the point?

We've got heavy lifting to do today helping in a move - good thing I have a clear head and feel great this morning! Have a good day, Gloamers, NS

[Guitarista]

What a beautiful place to be, Mr G! I might even be motivated to run if I had a beach like that nearby. And I'd love to hike in the forested area. Lucky man!

We've got heavy lifting to do today helping in a move - good thing I have a clear head and feel great this morning! Have a good day, Gloamers, NS

The power of nature SB. When i got to the top of the sand dunes where the ocean is revealed i was aghast at the beauty and raw power, expelling expletives as i looked out in sheer awe!

As an ex furniture removalist, don't forget to use a trolley anywhere you can. Priceless. Good luck with the move!

[Pavati]

Hi, All:

Mr. G - WOW. Lucky you to have all of that out your door.

I hear you all on the ebb and flow. I have been extra busy this year as I take on a new and exciting project, and my kids are around at night more, using the computer for homework, etc. I still like connecting, though, and like coming home to you all a few times a week. I agree that it is not the same, but I am not sure I need the same. It is sort of like an AA meeting I guess. Some go daily, some go weekly. Keeping a sober community is important, however.

I think I have come down with the spring crud - trying to stay quiet and get some sleep, after an over-booked week.

Happy Sober Saturday,
Pav

[little beagle]

TT some people choose to use texting and phone calls to supplement MWO.
I really need the support of this site right now. And I'm very grateful it's here.
I've been reading the Army thread a bit too.
I too try and ignore all the he said she said bullcrap. I just don't have time or patience for that. And it definitely does nothing to help me.
Mr. G very lovely place to run. I'm jealous. I need a trip to the beach the ocean quiets my mind.

[treetops]

Thanks Mr G. Almost as awesome as NZ!:thumbsup: Thanks also everyone for your feedback.
LB - I have never been into the text and phone call thing for support for myself or for helping others. I guess it would feel a bit intrusive to me. Also I live on the other side of the world from most who post on this thread (except mr G and Choices ). The computer is easier for me. Probably I am at the stage Pav is at - in terms of being part of a community.

Its really easy to interpret things out of context on a site like this and sometimes best not to respond. And then there are things that some say, that others might find offensive, wrong or silly. Too easy to hit the 'post' button. I have been reading the Army thread too sometimes but it moves fast! The problem with dipping in and out is that one doesn't always know the back-story. Another way to misinterpret things.
Quite a few of the people I seemed to click well with on MWO over the years have dropped out - I dont think this was because of anything in particular and probably stuff going on in their lives. But I have felt a bit sad about that side of things - i.e., having really good interaction, messages etc - and then just drifting away.
Dont know what has brought this train of thought on.

[Pavati]

Hi, All:

TT, I hear what you're saying. I think people here have always drifted off, but for some reason there aren't new people here any more. I have read so much about addiction and have come to the conclusion that being in a sober community is EXTREMELY important to long-term sobriety. I can see that it would be easy to drift away, but I like to come, "see" my friends, and remind myself that sober is the way to be. I worry that the drifters are drinking, I hope they're not, and occasionally they stop by and say hi (AbCowboy posted!).

I had a long day in front of the computer for work yesterday. My back is sore, and I am feeling logy. I know I need to get out, but it is cold and wet and I am battling inertia. Coming here is a good reminder of what I need to do to take care of myself, so I'll lace up the shoes and brave the elements. Maybe head to the beach, because I am with you, LB, it clears my head.

I hope you are reading and taking care of yourselves Jane, J-Vo and SL!

xo
Pav

[paulywogg]

Treetops,I'd be devastated if you ever left it was sad when you left the daily thread but I was happy that I could find you here,you've ALWAYS been there for me and others and I appreciate your little nuggets of common sense you give,it may not always feel like what you're posting is super important but you never know who you're helping, most of the he said,she said is in the meds part and while it was kinda intriguing at first,it just got annoying to me and I just avoid reading that part,anyhoo,just wanted to pop-In and add my opinion on this,hope all the Gloamers have a great day