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    Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

    Good Morning and welcome to a new month! Where did June go?

    Star, thank you for the book mention. I will look for it at the library. It sounds like the kind of book that might be just the ticket for me right now. Thanks also for sending positive energy my son's way. He is doing well and Mr. D and I feel he gets better every time we see him. The changes are so gradual, but they are still unfolding after all this time. :l:hCongrats on the grandson!:h:l What a blessing to you and your family! I'm so happy for you and your family!

    The times of clear sailing seem few and far between for me at the moment, but life goes on and we do have to make the best of our circumstances both for ourselves and our loved ones. I know that at my age I am a role model to my adult children, still. They still watch and learn. I know this because it was true for me with my parents as they grew older. I never stopped learning from them and thankfully they taught me well how to navigate troubled waters.

    Papmom thank you for the pics! I could almost feel the breeze just looking at them. I'm doing fine, thanks. I admit that I have been kind of down and feeling adrift these past few days, but I think I am getting my sea legs back. I'm feeling brighter today.

    Cyn, I guess Lav is right about pinching back the flower heads but I honestly have never done that with my dill. I just love the delicate flowers. I imagine you'll have a longer-lived and fuller plant if you follow Lav's advice, but later in the summer, let them flower and go to seed. I let mine go to seed and had a whole bed of dill that came up the next year from volunteers. That's the year I took that avatar photo. The dill was taller than me!

    Lav, wow on the 41 years! You must've been very yound when you got married. I don't think I would like a cat in the house, but I could adjust to it if need be. Maybe even come to like it, who knows! We keep all our animals outside because that is the way Mr. D was raised and I have gotten used to it now. If I lived alone tho, I would have a dog indoors to keep me company, I have no doubt about that.

    Let's all have a great AF July!
    Dill

    Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

    If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

    #2
    Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

    Good morning Dill & everyone, welcome to a brand new month
    Thanks for getting us started Dill!

    Change is inevitable ladies & I have found out (the hard way) that's it's less painful if we accept changes & go with the flow with a bit of gratitude
    We all agree that we have no real control over the future, right? All of the plotting & planning done in our youth was more of an illusion than anything else, IMHO. Just makes more sense to me now to accept what is here now with gratitude.

    Star, you will be amazed at how quickly you become attached to your new grandson. The first is very special, honestly. His presence is already helping you accept the inevitability of changes in your life & that's awesome :l

    Yep Dill, I was a child bride - no shit :H
    Things were different back then & we were both escaping a volatile home life. That's why I have always been determined to live in PEACE, no matter what!

    Greetings Papmom & Cyn!

    I am just putzing around this morning & have an 11 am dental appointment.
    Meeting a friend or two for lunch tomorrow. My friend who had the cardiac problem last week is better & away with family this week. I'm happy for her.
    Looks like rain for July 4th - ugh.

    Have a great AF Tuesday everyone!

    Lav
    AF since 03/26/09
    NF since 05/19/09
    Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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      #3
      Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

      Morning all -

      Thanks for the excellent start, Dill! I'm sorry you've been down - I'm glad to hear that you are perking up. You can always say just how you are feeling here.:l Wow - my dill is in pots on the deck, but I'll be sure to collect the seeds and put them in the big garden (which at the moment is looking like a tree farm, uuuugh. I'm just going to take the tree seedlings out, cover all the beds with cardboard, and hope to start again next year...) On the good side, I have lots of cherry toms coming on the deck, and some German variety of green tomatoes, not sure how those are going to turn out.

      Star - YES! The baby is showing you the way. Just think how scary his transition was! He's there to tell you that it's hard, but worth it. PS - I never had kids, and no grandkids will be coming either, so tell everything - I'm living vicariously!

      Pap - those pics were just fabulous, I felt like I was back on the coast of ME. I didn't get out on the water this last trip, but I grew up sailing with my Dad and would love to start sailing again - who knows?
      So glad you got a 'water' perspective for a day.

      Lav - your words of wisdom are right on the money. Thanks for the reminder not to be too disturbed about not being able to control everything: be grateful, and this too shall pass. Yesterday I had another 10 hour day at the computer, and I was really disturbed and beating myself up about these deadlines. But it should go on just a little longer, and I need to chill out about it in the meantime. Thanks, counselor!

      Hope all have a great AF day -
      to the light

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        #4
        Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

        Good morning friends!

        Well - where did everyone go? :H

        I am fine & plan to head out to Curves, run some errands & meet 2 friends for lunch!
        It's disgustingly hot & humid & now I see Hurricane Arthur is moving up the coast. July 4th is likely to be a washout out

        I hope everyone is OK. Hello to new granny Star, Dill, Cyn & Papmom.
        Have a great AF Hump day everyone!

        Lav
        AF since 03/26/09
        NF since 05/19/09
        Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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          #5
          Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

          Cross post Cyn
          AF since 03/26/09
          NF since 05/19/09
          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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            #6
            Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

            Hello All!

            Wow! Did we ever have a lightning show last night! It was the craziest thing I ever did see!

            Today has been busy and a monkey wrench was thrown in on top as Mr. D found a newborn calf that was in distress. We've just had the vet out and he says it looks bad but if he makes it through the next 8 hours he'll probably survive. He tube fed it and gave it various meds. We'll see. Fingers crossed all! (Holy cow! ~pun intended ~ what will this vet bill look like?!)

            Cyn, MMMMMMMMM! Cherry tomatoes!
            Lav, did you have fun with your lunch buddies?

            Mr. D and I are meeting some relatives (on his side) for dinner. I guess there's nothing more we can do for this little calf until morning. The vet wants us to call him if it is still alive and he will come tube feed it again.

            You just never know what's going to happen in a day, do you?
            Dill

            Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

            If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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              #7
              Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

              Aww geez Dill, wish I lived closer to you. I'm sure I could help with the calf, they're just like babies.
              I hope everything is OK. Vet bills are painful, I know. The woman who owns the Curves franchise has two horses & she has told me about some of her vet bills
              I hope your family dinner was peaceful.

              I had a busy day & a nice lunch with two friends. The younger one has had a hard year with one major illness after another & she's only 47. It started with a hysterectomy last May & since then she's been having minor but very frightening strokes!!! She has also found out that she has a hole in her heart (which may be causing these strokes). She is also diabetic, hypertensive & overweight. Very sad situation but I reminded her today to be grateful to be alive & well enough to get out for a few hours. The other friend with the heart problems is away at the beach in NJ with her family. Man - the nurses are falling apart

              I just realized today that I need to harvest a whole LOT of cherry tomatoes myself in the next few days & green beans as well - yay!

              Take care of yourselves everyone :l
              AF since 03/26/09
              NF since 05/19/09
              Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                #8
                Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                I'm here Lav! Everything is fine but HOT! We had some boomers this afternoon and tonite but I didn't see much lightening thankfully. I think it's going to cool off a bit which I can't wait for. I really hate running the AC. $$$.

                Star-I am so silly-I knew you had a grandson-not sure why I kept saying grand daughter!! Talk about short term memory loss!! I am so glad being with your daughter and grandSON this week has shown you the way. I'm betting now that you know its the right decision, things will get much easier.

                Dill-I too am sorry to hear you were a bit down. Glad you're coming up from under water! My prayers are with that little calf. I hope that if she/he is meant to be on this earth it will happen. I can't imagine going through this a couple of times a year. You and Mr. Dill have my admiration. Yay for your son getting stronger and stronger and more confident in his sobriety and parenting skills.

                Lav-glad you and YB went out to celebrate your 41 years and that your friend is feeling better. Scary stuff. Also glad the furkids are oK. I still miss having a cat in the house. When I was organizing and putting things away in the new desk, I found pics of when I had just gotten girl kitty. Also pics of my then 18 yo kitty. I know she was really sick then but in the pics she doesn't look too bad. Pics as well of me with my niece at 3. I had longer hair and a perm!! I'll be keeping all those photos for sure!

                Cyn-have you come up for air yet from the computer work? I bet you'll have a wonderful great garden next year! I hope you'll post pics. And glad to hear all is well with you.

                My boss was off today and will be tomorrow as her dad had bypass surgery today. It went longer than expected and he needed a transfusion but he is doing well. I did basically nothing all day. Neither did anyone else. I'm trying to think of a project for everyone but am coming up empty. This is more stressful than being straight out busy!! I was so down at the end of the day (and stressed out because my bank account was pretty much depleted and I still needed gas to get home) I couldn't even get the motivation to go work out. I worked on the office instead. I will definitely go swimming tomorrow if I don't drop dead of boredom first. Even tho the weather is supposed to be bad for the weekend i've got enough to do inside and looking forward to it. but if it turns out to be nice, I've got projects outside as well.

                Well that's it for tonite. Will check in again tomorrow.
                New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                KO the Beast!!

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                  #9
                  Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                  Good morning...

                  My interview yesterday went well, I think. I hope they thought so too. I really want to work there, it would be challenging. I have to let go of outcome and be present. My grandson is so precious, sleeping during the day, crying at night. Whew, you have to be young to get through that. However, they are all doing well. I am so content to be here for a week, helping out when I can, loving him, it is so wonderful for me. When I am here, I feel happy.

                  Pap, glad you got thorugh the day without your boss around. I hope your weekend is relaxing and the weather ends up better then they predicted.

                  Dill, hope dinner out helped with your mood.

                  Lav, big plans for 4th of July?

                  Cyn, you are such a hard worker.

                  Sorry guys, I am so tired, up at night, baby crying, although I did not have to do anything.

                  Have a great day.
                  Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                    #10
                    Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                    Good morning friends,

                    Glad to see you checking in Star
                    Hope the good interview turns into a job offer for you!
                    Enjoy those precious early days with your grandson. Sleep is something you can catch up on later.

                    No big plans for July 4th except hurricane Arthur
                    The weather stinks - 3rd day in a row here with +90 heat & super humidity, very yucky.
                    I'm running out to Curves shortly then to the store for a few things. Grandsons arriving at lunchtime & will be here until at least 8pm so I will be busy!!!

                    Hello to Papmom, Dill & Cyn!
                    Have a great AF Thursday everyone1

                    Lav
                    AF since 03/26/09
                    NF since 05/19/09
                    Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                      #11
                      Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                      Happy Fourth of July!!!

                      Weather here is perfect, 50-70s and sunny. We are just hanging out and enjoying ourselves.

                      Have a great day.
                      Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                        #12
                        Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                        Happy Fourth from Ohio! Let's make it be "Independence from Alcohol Day"!

                        It's beautiful weather here today. Yesterday was cloudy and breezy with a few showers, but we went out on the boat anyway. It was really quite nice to be on the water in cloudy conditions. It had a very different feel from the usual sunny conditions. Too cold to get in the water, so I didn't get to use my floating chairs (still have and enjoy them, Star, thanks to your mention of them last summer!).

                        On a sad note, the little calf did not survive.

                        Cyn, Lav, Papmom, Star and everyone, have a wonderful AF holiday weekend.:h
                        Dill

                        Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                        If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                          #13
                          Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                          Happy 4th of July everyone!

                          Sorry about the calf Dill, sad.

                          Weather super sucks here!!!!!
                          Big storm knocked out power yesterday around 6pm & it's not on yet.
                          Using the generator a little here & there so we can keep food safe, get a drink of water & flush toilets :H
                          Just wish the sun would at least make an appearance.

                          Wishing everyone a safe AF holiday!

                          Lav
                          AF since 03/26/09
                          NF since 05/19/09
                          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                            #14
                            Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                            Lav, sorry about your power outage! Has power come back on yet? Thank goodness for your generator!
                            Dill

                            Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                            If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                              #15
                              Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                              Hello All!

                              Happy 4th of July - I love the idea of Independence from Alcohol, perfect.

                              Dill - I'm so sorry for your little calf, that would be awfully hard to take. I have been in distress because our little warbler family which had been coming along so well (the chicks looked ready to fly, the parents were bringing food and trying to coax them out) suddenly had no chicks in the nest. In the course of about 10 minutes - squak, squak, then nothing. So either they 'flew the coop', or some predator got them. Waaaaa! One bird keeps calling to the mate who isn't coming around, and it tried to clean out the nest (in a felted wool enclosed nest, like a tree hole), but finally gave up. I love their song, and am a little heartbroken, but c'est la vie.

                              I'm still doing some editing on a piece today, but nothing flat-out like it has been, thank goodness. SD arrived for the weekend, and we are quiet with the persistent rain. 4 inches in a matter of minutes Wednesday, and same thing yesterday - I put barrels out to catch the rain since it was overflowing the gutters, eeek!

                              Lav - I hope you have power back on! We lost ours on Wednesday night, but it was pretty quickly restored (for CT!).

                              Nice to hear from you Pap, I hope you lived through the Thursday work day and had a swim.

                              Star - it's been a while since you had a good night's sleep! Crossing fingers for the interviewed position - hope this is 'the one.'

                              Take care all, and happy holiday -
                              to the light

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