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    #61
    Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

    Good morning...

    Well, an eventful few days for me. Really eventful. I was offered the job I wanted most of all. A bit of a career change, and a challenge. It was an intensive all day interview, presentation, etc., but I did it and after the background check will get the official offer. I am just stunned, so pleased, scared, happy, and continuing to focus on positive outcomes.

    We had an offer on our house yesterday, and I will accept it today. So, with all things working towards a fast and easy move, things are progressing rapidly. Of course there are contingencies, but I choose to believe they will all be met successfully and easily.

    Cyn, we are looking at an apartment, and they want tons of info, some of which I cannot supply that easily, so will continue to work on it. It was interesting that you mentioned this, as I am currently experiencing what you described. Proof of income, credit check, background check, etc. Good grief, yet it may help to get a nicer, safer place to live for a year or so. Just lots of work and you better have your life in order. I wonder what people do who have a checkered past. Are you destined to never live anywhere? I don't know. Keep on sending that positive energy.

    Dill, I know what you mean getting rid of things. We give them meaning, putting our memories and emotional meaning into them. The reality for me is that I have the memories for free, kept inside of my heart and head. Yet it is still hard. More of that this week for me. My kids feel the same way, they want pictures, and other things, yet just don't have the room. My son took a box of pictures and said, "I'll put them in my closet." Great, from my basement to his closet. That tells me that we just need to toss them, sad as it may be. We will need room for the new pictures of our grandson. But those will be digitial, easier to store. I think. Good luck on your decluttering. It is funny how we are all experiencing letting go at this time in our lives. Did you finish the book about the saints and what did you think of it? Book club summary please.

    Lav, a granny condo sounds great. I love the outdoors, but just don't have the energy anymore. I thought I would be happy with some potted plants on a balcony or deck. A friend of mine told of her mother who won't let go of her house, and her house and yard are just falling apart. I think it is good to realize where you are in your life, gracefully accept it, and move on. It is sad in some ways, yet it can be so much easier to move forward and let go. I am thinking and working on acceptance. Some days are better than others. Hey, the weather here is perfect, I am loving it. I am sending it your way. Low 70s daytime, low 50s at night.

    Work today, then more clean up. I forgot to mention I spent the night at my daughter's and offered to take care of the baby all night so she could sleep. The longest I slept was three hours straight through. I was so tired yesterday it was unbelievable. We are building memories, and she was able to rest. It brought back memories of sleep deprivation from years back.

    Have a terrific Thursday.
    Formerly known as redhibiscus

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      #62
      Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

      Good morning friends!

      Greetings Dill & good luck on granny duty today
      I am sitting here right now with EB. He spent the night & is one happy little clam. I am happy too!!!!

      Star, WOW!
      Congrats to you, the universe has opened up big time. Now all you need to do is receive
      I hope your new job is perfect for you, exciting & fulfilling too!
      I haven't rented living quarters since the early 70's so I imagine the process has changed big time. Probably for the better for everyone involved.
      Happy you got to experience some hands-on granny time - exhausting but thrilling at the same time! It gets better & easier as time goes on, I promise

      I am trying to quietly de-clutter a little here & there too. It's a good thing to share the things you are no longer using. A 'Free Store' has opened up in the town where my daughter lives & she volunteers there. So I have been taking a few things each time I visit.

      Cyn, hope you are OK & not overworked! The nice weather has finally arrived so I am going to be out replanting my raised beds. The broccoli & cauliflower are nearly finished so I want to start some more beets & chard in those spots

      Papmom, hello to you if you have time to check in. I see your Facebook posts!

      OK, must go!
      Have a great day everyone!

      Lav
      AF since 03/26/09
      NF since 05/19/09
      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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        #63
        Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

        WOW STAR! What an epic few days for you! You sound like super woman from where I sit!:H On top of all the changes happening in your life, you did major grandma duty! What a blessing you are to your daughter. But, OMG! I am so happy you were able to wait and receive the offer you really were hoping for! "Good things come to those who wait" (and plan and prepare......). As far as the book, I am not quite finished yet. Not much time for reading lately, but I will tell you that I am thoroughly enjoying the book. It gives me a fresh perspective on Catholicism in general and on my own faith journey. I feel like being raised in the Catholic tradition you are molded and taught rule, ideology, theology, history, morals, etc. Many good things, really. But you rarely come across true spirituality and rarely get to see it in action in the context of the faith. This book is doing that for me. It is helping me understand my relationship to God and to the Church in a profound way.

        Lav, I love the concept of a "free store"! I hate making donations of my old stuff to places like good will where they turn around and sell it. I want to give it to someone who needs it directly. Papmom has mentioned freecycle, but I guess I never went with that because it involves computer and that step put me off. Anyway, good job on the mini decluttering. I think that's the best way to go.....just trim along the way. Kind of like pruning a plant to improve it's health and growth...

        Baby blanket is coming along, room projects are coming along. I had a bad moment yesterday while trying to start the gas grill. The starter is malfunctioning and I had to start it with a match. I waited too long and the gas had built up too much. When I lit that match, POOOOFFF! Lord! I literally singed the hair off my arms and tips of it arount my face! What a scare! I'm ok but do have what could be compared to a bad sunburn on my arms and face. Geez! At my age to do something so dumb! Oh well, at least I can own it....I can't say it was alcohol that caused it!:H

        Happy AF Friday everyone.
        Dill

        Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

        If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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          #64
          Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

          Good morning friends - it's me again

          I had a busy but fun day yesterday. My daughter & granddaughter came out for a visit so I had a house full of busy ones

          Heading out to Curves shortly then will be on little boy duty starting at noon - yay!
          YB returned from his out of town conference as well.

          Greetings Dill, Star, Cyn & Papmom
          Wishing everyone a happy & AF Friday!

          Lav
          AF since 03/26/09
          NF since 05/19/09
          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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            #65
            Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

            Cross post Dill!

            Scary about the grill incident
            I've done that myself a time or two, geez!
            Just glad you are OK!!
            AF since 03/26/09
            NF since 05/19/09
            Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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              #66
              Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

              Good morning..

              Had a really long post and lost it. Darn.

              Dill, glad you are OK, but how scarey. We have a gas fireplace and you have to light it quickly or BAM, it will burn the hair off your arm. So happy you are enjoying the book and it is adding to your faith journey. Father Martin writes beautifully of his spiritual growth, daily practices and the saints spiritual journeys. It does add to your understanding of our faith, the beauty in it, how we can read, pray, take action in our own way, as the various saints did. I love the fact that he emphasizes that they had faults, just like us. Not expected to be perfect, but to work through their challenges to create something beautiful for God. The other book I recommended is similar in that the faith stories are so beautiful. I read a prayer the other day that says that God loves his people and blesses the ordinary lives we quietly live. These books help us appreciate our efforts.

              Lav, the universe is opening up and at lightening speed. I am just working hard at keeping up. It is amazing how much stuff I have that I never,and I mean never use. I worked on the basement yesterday, and there is still more stuff. We had to scrub the floor as it smelled musty down there. So, hopefully that challenge has been met as it took all day. With a home inspector coming soon, things have to be in good order, and I thought they were, but the bar keeps moving higher. On a sad note, I had to put down my 16 year old cat the other day, really upsetting. She had been deteriorating for the last several weeks, with all the disruption adding to her distress. Down to one pet which is different for me. So, many changes. Have fun with your family. I do love taking care of my grandson. It feels so different to be a grandmother, wisdom and confidence and an overwhelming feeling of love. I know what it means this time around where as when I was young, it was so different.

              Hello to Pap and Cyn, hope to hear from you soon.
              Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                #67
                Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                Good morning friends!

                Slept in until 7:15 this morning :H
                I was exhausted after the last few days watching kids - for sure!

                Star, very sorry about your cat! Goodness, at 16 years old she surely was a family member.
                I know how busy you are getting everything sorted but just think of how cool the future is going to be for you New beginnings in everyway possible - very exciting
                I have been strong urges to get rid of some junk around here so I will continue on that mission as well.
                Hope the home inspection goes well for you!

                Greetings Dill! Are you exhausted after putting in granny time too this week?

                Hello to Papmom & Cyn!

                No big plans for me today, just going to putz around.
                Have a great AF Saturday one & all!

                Lav
                AF since 03/26/09
                NF since 05/19/09
                Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                  #68
                  Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                  Late check in for me and this will be a short post.

                  Star, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your cat. It is always so hard when a pet dies, always. You have had that cat for 16 years! Wow! What a good long life.

                  Lav, yes I am exhausted. It's been particularly busy here these past couple of days. I hope to get more time to post tomorrow.

                  Have a wonderfully AF Saturday!
                  Dill

                  Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                  If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                    #69
                    Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                    Good morning to all...

                    I was so busy yesterday, and there is still alot of stuff to sort through and get rid of. The basement is ongoing, my next place, no basement. It turns into a big storage unit for stuff. Thanks for the condolences about my kitty.

                    Today, more cleaning out. Right now that is my life, finishing up at work and cleaning out.

                    Lav, thanks for the positive suggestions, new beginnings are wonderful and full of possibilities. Take care of yourself, glad you were able to sleep. I selpt about 8 hours last night and feel like a new person. Hopefully will get alot done today.

                    Dill, hope to hear from you when you get more time.

                    Hello to Pap and Cyn.

                    Have a good Sunday.
                    Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                      #70
                      Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                      Good morning to all...

                      I was so busy yesterday, and there is still alot of stuff to sort through and get rid of. The basement is ongoing, my next place, no basement. It turns into a big storage unit for stuff. Thanks for the condolences about my kitty.

                      Today, more cleaning out. Right now that is my life, finishing up at work and cleaning out.

                      Lav, thanks for the positive suggestions, new beginnings are wonderful and full of possibilities. Take care of yourself, glad you were able to sleep. I selpt about 8 hours last night and feel like a new person. Hopefully will get alot done today.

                      Dill, hope to hear from you when you get more time.

                      Hello to Pap and Cyn.

                      Have a good Sunday.
                      Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                        #71
                        Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                        Hi everybody -

                        Gosh I thought I posted recently - but I think I may have hit 'log out' instead of 'post' - I caught myself almost doing that the other day!

                        Wow - big doings! Congrats, Star - look what you did, with your positive affirmations! I love to hear about your sweet grandma duty. How wonderful of you. And washing the basement floor - that's hard duty. Yes, I was shocked also about how much info you need to provide when renting. I think it is very hard for anyone with any past issues - even with a great job and references, SD's apartment search almost derailed because of a low-ish credit score. We ended up having to co-sign on the rental agreement. Very embarrassing for her at 43 years old...

                        Dill and Lav, it sounds like you are both keeping yourselves busy! I agree, the mini-decluttering is the way to go. We take our own garbage and recycling to a 'Transfer Station' - which is accurate, as there is a Swap Shop and one of those clothing receptacles there. I am always taking things there - and sometimes a person will take my item right out of my hands and walk off with it!

                        Star, forgot to say how sorry I am about your cat. Wow, that's a lot of life together. Maybe it is a blessing, though - the change would have been awfully hard on her.

                        Pap, hope you are doing OK.

                        Big wishes for a great Sunday to all. SD came on Friday night, and I am trying to get my work in while still being social and being a step-mom. Good luck to all!
                        to the light

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                          #72
                          Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                          Good morning Star & everyone!

                          Sporting some respiratory funk introduced by my daughter & granddaughter several days ago - oh well.
                          I loaded up on Benadryl & cough syrup before bed last night - helped a lot. For some reason this virus is also affecting my joints. Walking was painful yesterday
                          Staying positive though & trying to drown the virus with a lot of coffee & tea

                          Good luck with your cleaning out activities today Star!!!
                          Greetings to Dill, Papmom & Cyn!

                          Have a great AF Sunday everyone!

                          Lav
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                          AF since 03/26/09
                          NF since 05/19/09
                          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                            #73
                            Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                            ahhhh, finally back "home"!! I can't believe how long I've been away-the weeks have flown!! I was able to read back on everyone's doings so hope I don't forget anyone!

                            First and foremost-CONGRATS to Star on the job offer and the house offer!! :banana: Finally, the Universe is lining up for you! I know it's been a long hard journey but you kept the faith and worked really hard. Hope the rest of the way is much easier. I am also very sorry to hear about your kitty. Its so hard to watch them go downhill and be helpless to make them feel better. She had a great life with you-please know she is running and chasing mice and birds again and hopefully playing with all my kitties on the other side of the Bridge. May these next 2 weeks at work be stressfree and go by fast. Your bosses attitude is hers to own-Please let it roll off your back and imagine walking out the door for the last time. It will be liberating!!

                            Dill-I love your attitude of gratitude for the turnaround your son has made and all the changes to get back to normal you are making now. You deserve it all-you gave yourself totally to your son and his family and you are now reaping the rewards.

                            Cyn-goodness! 3 weeks away!! I hope this is something that is fun for you even if it is very hard work. Have you made progress with the jungle? I've decided I need a machete or something to deal with mine. I'm with you on the bittersweet-nasty nasty stuff! It almost killed my new tree a few years ago.

                            Lav-those storms were pretty impressive. Spent a couple of nights down in the basement until they passed by. Scary. You've been alone for so long, does it now seem wierd to have YB gone for a few days? I saw your post about your brother on FB. I thought it was a very touching and sweet tribute to him. Sorry your ex SIL didn't see it that way but not your issue. I loved seeing what he looked like and how happy your both were back then. He deserves your tribute and love even in the afterlife. She must be in tons of pain to act the way she does. Nothing you can do about it. Just know we all love you and admire you. You are our leader and I find myself thinking at times: "what would Lav do?".

                            So obviously it's been a busy few weeks. Last weekend was 18 hours of work over 2 days. It was fun but totally exhausting. As vendors we were treated like royalty and it made things so much nicer. Even better was the turn out of competitors and spectators. All the sponsor's hard work paid off and I love seeing that. The full time job has been tough. My boss is dealing with the aftermath of her dad's bypass surgery complete with life threatening complications that thankfully he seems to have overcome. Still dealing with a bit of surgery dementia tho. She's been taking some time off but not enough as far as I'm concerned. I'd be with my dad every day, screw whatever leave I had left. She's got tons. I've been bored, bored bored and it is so very painful to go in every day. I'm losing more and more respect for my coworkers who abuse their leave benefits, are hypochondriacs and spend most of the day on the web even tho they know my boss gets detailed internet usage reports on them. They don't seem to care and probably feel very protected by the union. I still can't do anything as I am not their supervisor but I just know my boss expects me to be more of a leader. i'm trying to set a good example as I feel that's all I can do. It's very frustrating. I know they hate their jobs as much as I hate mine. I am actively looking but have no idea what direction to go in. Nothing looks appealing anymore. I have no passion for anything but my part time job. My house is falling apart and I don't have the money to fix it. I need to get rid of my car but can't. Get rid of my house and rent but I can't. I am keeping up with my exercise and am on the second week of jogging with my dog. He likes it and I do too. I know that if I ever went back to drinking to deal with all this I would be over this life but sometimes the temptation to numb out is very great.
                            It feels like a downward spiral and I am still waiting for the layoff notice. Maybe it won't come but maybe it would be the best thing to happen.
                            I have an idea in my mind of a business to start but it is daunting and would require a ton of money in loans and investors. If it didn't work out I would be totally ruined. Scary. So, I put one foot in front of the other every day and hope things will work out. I try not to feel the pain of going into work every day but it is hard. I envy people like my sister and former colleagues that love their jobs and the people they work with. I had that once and even when I didn't like my job anymore I loved the people. Now I have neither.
                            OK, enough of my whining. I'll have to start serving cheese soon!! I really need to check in every day from now on so I don't get so behind with everyone. Lav-remind me on FB or email me when i don't OK?
                            Love you all-I'll see you tomorrow nite.
                            New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                            "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                            KO the Beast!!

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                              #74
                              Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                              Good morning ladies...

                              Pap, so good to hear from you. Thanks for your condolences on my cat, it was really hard and took me a few days to come to terms with the situation, but I know I did the right thing, she was miserable and had lived a good life. Just keep looking for jobs, you never know what will come up. Can you transfer within the organization you work for? Just exploring some options. Exercising and keeping up with you health is the best idea to feeling good. But I know what you mean, I look at my situation and think, what the heck, at my age, switching jobs, moving to an apartment, having to totally recreate myself. Yet, I am going to do it. The other option is to give up and then I will turn into someone I don't want to be. So, onward and forward.

                              Cyn, so good to hear from you. I struggled a few days to post as the site was kind of difficult to get on to or did not want to post. Thanks for condolences on my cat. I still have not heard on the apartment, and no past problems, that I know of. I have to call them today. The basement is almost cleared out and smells better, but is still an unfinished basement, so does not smell like the rest of the house. I hope never to have to scrub a floor like that again. My husband, home for a day or so, really helped to get things done and organized. I fell yesterday carrying books of all things, and hurt my foot, but luckily not to bad. I guess I need to slow down. So, this week continue to work, clean, declutter, and begin packing. Hope you are feeling better and life is going smoothly.

                              Lav, oh no, you have had your share of illnesses from the grandkids. Take care of yourself, I know you will.

                              Hello Dill, have a good Monday.
                              Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                                #75
                                Come Fly in July! ~ on AF wings

                                Good morning friends,

                                Overcast this morning - so far anyway.
                                Not feeling 100% either, scratchy throat & only about half a voice, :H
                                I think I'll lay low today & try to get rid of this stuff.

                                Papmom, good to see you here
                                Sorry your job stinks so much right now. Keep your eyes & ears open, you never know what's around the corner. Glad you saw my FB tribute - miss my big brother & am sad that his wife has turned into such a lunatic.

                                Star, you are really kicking some butt there - good for you!
                                I hope your foot is OK, ouch. Do you have a dehumidifier to run in your basement? That usually helps get that musty smell out.

                                Greetings to the busy Dill & Cyn!
                                Have a great AF Monday everyone!

                                Lav
                                AF since 03/26/09
                                NF since 05/19/09
                                Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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