Sweet September

[cyntree]

Sweet September

Hi everyone -

Busy busy days here. I had a long day in NYC yesterday.

I think I should be out trying to get some control over the gardens and landscape, but I don't seem to ever get there. Maybe this weekend before I scoot out of town.

Pap - great job on the numbers! You are a great role model for how much a person can actually control their health - good for you!

Lav and Dill - sleepovers with granddaughters sounds like it was fun --

Star - so glad that you are liking your job and are OK with the 5 days a week; you really are handling all this change so remarkably!

Good job all the way around everyone!! Happy AF Friday --

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Greetings friends,

Finally, a chance to jump on & say hello
The girls spent two nights & I was beginning to wonder if it was going to be three :H
Lots of exhausting fun in the heat & humidity, phew!!
We never did get to Ikea yesterday, so the book case has to wait a while. We did pick up a pretty nifty three drawer (plastic) storage unit at Walmart for toys though

Star, be safe on the road & enjoy your visit.
I am looking forward to some storms to finally move this nasty weather out of here. We are promised relief in Sunday, yay!

Dill, three year olds are so special, aren't they? :H
Glad you had a visitor too!

Cyn, we need to do a lot of outside work too BUT we're waiting for the weather to ease up a bit. I just don't handle the excessive heat & humidity very well. Don't knock yourself out this weekend before your trip. Better to go away feeling good, right?

I hope everyone has a peaceful, air conditioned, AF night!!!

Lav

[dill]

Sweet September

In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.

~Eleanor Roosevelt

Hello All, It's been a while since I went looking for a quote so I thought I'd give it a try today. This is the one that jumped out at me which I suppose means that it is reflective of some thought process or some need that is bubbling below my surface. I went to bed last night with a feeling of unease/anxiety. Like there was something I was missing or that I should have taken care of. I was so tired I fell asleep before I could examine my day tho. So I think I am waking with a "hangover" from that, if that makes any sense. I'm going to have to take some time this morning to examine my thoughts and things going on in my life to see if there is something I need to take care of. It didn't help that Mr. D and I chose to watch a classic movie last night called "A Bridge Too Far" which was based on real battles in the second world war. Watching the scenes of that movie, the bravery, the seemingly senseless death and destruction it made me deeply sad.

Well, I guess I'm going to pull you all down into my funk with me if I don't shift gears here!:H So, on a lighter note, I think I will get ready for the kick off to the NFL season. Of course the first game was Thursday already, but tomorrow is the first NFL Sunday. We'll be having smoked ribs prepared by my son so today I will make a potato salad to go with them. Perhaps a veggie tray and/a fruit tray too!

Star, Cyn, Papmom, Lav I hope you all enjoy a peaceful AF Saturday. Weeds are abounding here, too BTW. Just too hot to deal with them!

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Good morning Dill & everyone!

Stuck in the heat & humidity here too Dill - yuck!
All sorts of allergy symptoms are popping up too - double yuck!

Dill, do you think that feeling of unease & things undone could possibly be due to the change of seasons? I've had a pretty good summer (except for the foot thing) but I've been thinking a little about all things I didn't do (could have but didn't do). I'm in the habit now of recognizing those self-defeating thoughts & putting them away before they do any real damage

Greetings to Star, Papmom & Cyn!
Have a great AF day everyone. Nothing planned for today, just catching up on stuff around here

Lav

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Good Sunday morning friends!

Hope everyone is OK & just sleeping in a bit

I ended up entertaining my DIL & grandsons last evening, they didn't leave until almost 10 pm.
We had several large storms but the temp has dropped quite a bit!
We have an invitation to go walk around the town for a festival where my daughter lives but I think I'm going to pass. Walking is just not all that comfortable yet with or without my boot. There will be other events later in the month & next month

Wishing everyone a nice AF Sunday!
Greetings Dill, Star, Papmom & Cyn!

Lav

[dill]

Sweet September

Good Evening,
It's been a beautiful day here but I definitely hit the ground running! We went to a festival yesterday and then to buy a new cell phone so I didn't get my potato salad made until this morning before church. Also made pasta salad. The kick-off to NFL season was a good one with perfect smoked ribs and a winning game for the Bengal fans here. My Browns did well but lost in the end.

Lav, I think some of my unease definitely could be related to change of season. I have some real world issues that are difficult right now but I have done all that I can in those situations.

My son and grand kids are doing well still, so that is a blessing. My daughter comes for a brief visit in about a week. She'll be in town to be maid of honor for a high school girlfriend.

Have a peaceful AF Sunday one and all.

[Stargazerlily]

Sweet September

Good morning...

I had a a busy, crazy weekend, out of town, then when I came home, guests were here within an hour, so after they left yesterday, I had lots of clean-up and then getting ready for my week. Whew, no down time. It was great through to see good friends and family. Back to work this morning.

Struggling with some issues, we started to look around at houses, condos, etc., just to get ideas, and it is overwhelming. Really makes me miss my old house. However, having said that, I am focusing on being positive, knowing that what is done is done. I think that even considering another move may be what shook me up. I am staying where I am for now.

Lav, wow, you have lots of visiting. How fun. It is so much cooler here, it is lovely. We took a long walk yesterday evening, and it was just wonderful. I don't blame you for not going to the festival. I had a foot injury in the past and really gave it time to heal. I did totally heal., too. It just takes lots of time. After Wednesday of this week, a real cool down, the beginnnig of fall, with lows in the 40s and highs in the 60s. I am looking forward to it.

Dill, loved the quote, we are all on the journey of our lives. I am currently reading a book about a woman who is considering becomig a nun in her 50s. It is really interesting to me, and it entails her struggle with spiritualiity, the church, churches, and where she is in her life. Sounds like you are contemplating things going on in your life. We are here if you care to discuss what is going on. I loved the support I received when we were in the process of all the changes in my life this summer. I am still stunned by the move, new job, etc. I'll be OK, then BAM, it hits me. Anyway, you have been through alot of changes too and i am learning it takes time to come to terms with it.

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Good morning friends!

Monday morning & currently 59 degrees - nice. Maybe the sun will show up later

Dill & Star, changes are inevitable & perfectly fine provided we keep our cool - am I right??
I feel as if I've built up some sort of protective, hazmat type suit over these past 5 1/2 years. I am determined to never let anything or anyone knock me off my pins again!
I know we are all a lot stronger now than we were when we first met here many years ago. We have learned to accept change & embrace growth & have done it together

Wishing everyone a terrific AF Monday!
I'm off to Curves to do what I can there - glad to be getting back into my routine.

Greetings to Papmom & Cyn!

Lav

[dill]

Sweet September

Greetings All,

I've been out for a walk with my gf's this morning. I stayed five minutes longer with the one who has been struggling of late and asked her if she would like to have a list of AA meetings in the area. I found it on the internet and printed it off with her in mind. I was afraid of how she might react, but she was appreciative and said she would look into it. She said she is trying on her own for now, but we all know how hard that is!!! With her I am afraid she is well past it being an option. If she doesn't get a grip soon she may die. I hate to see her struggling so. It is to the point where it is not "hide-able". I think many of us have had the good fortune of turning things around for ourselves before it became an obvious fact to others. But you can see how sad she is and she is in such poor health as a direct result of the alcohol.

Star I can sure relate to being busy like you described. It's good tho, eh? And yes, there are some things going on in my family right now that are troubling but I don't feel comfortable sharing it here because it is deeply personal for the relative involved. All I can do is do my part to the best of my ability. Once again. So many times in life it is just like that, isn't it. Your book sounds very interesting, btw! Good luck with your home search. Just take it at your own pace. There is certainly no need to hurry.

Lav, What?!! Knock you off your pins? I like to see anyone try!:H

[Stargazerlily]

Sweet September

Good morning...

Lav, I wish I could say that nothing could shake me up, but it is not so! Mostly I can manage things but the move and second new job in one year was a little over the top for me. However, I am doing bettter, sleeping well, and working on doing my best. Positive thinking, gratitude my all the difference. It is still nice and cool here and I love it.

Dill, how sweet you are to your friend, it is so scarey that if she does not quit, she will die. I mean it is as clear as that. We know. I started reading Gone Girl at my friend's house and placed a hold on it at my library, it was a mystery and I want to finish.

Work today and that's about it. Have a good one.

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Good morning all & happy Tuesday!

63 degrees here ~ nice.

Dill, that was a good thing for you to do for your friend!
I wonder, do you think she would go to an AA meeting if you offered to go with her?
Have you tried giving her info about MWO? That way she could have extra support

Star, I guess we shouldn't use the word 'never' because who knows what could happen in the future.
I am determined to use my genetic stubbornness in positive ways to help keep me happy & healthy!
Glad you are feeling more settled after your move & all the big changes

Greetings Papmom, I guess you are enjoying this cooler weather too!
My big dog has suddenly become alive again - this is her weather

Cyn, you are on the road I imagine. Wishing you a safe trip!

I have work today so I'll get to it now.
Have a great day everyone!

Lav

[dill]

Sweet September

Good evening All,

Lav, Yes I think it might help her if I offered to go with her, but at the same time, maybe not. It might be an over-stepping of boundaries. So I guess I am not sure. I have told her about MWO in the past, but she is one who does not like technology and refuses to to go there.

Star, the book you mentioned called, " Gone Girl" I had not heard of but after reading your post I went to my library website and requested it. I also googled it. Did you know that it will be made into a movie this October? Charlese Theron will be in it. I always like to read the book before I see the movie.

Peaceful AF goodnight to all.

[Stargazerlily]

Sweet September

Good morning all...

Dill, yes I saw that Gone Girl is being made into a movie, but don't know if I will be able to read it before as all the copies are out at my library. I could buy it, but after my book purge a few months ago, I don't want to buy books anymore, much. Ha ha, I know I will continue to buy books, I love to read! Hope you enjoy the book. I admire your giving your friend with the drinking problem info on MWO and AA, but ultimately it will be up to her to reach out. Technology is so much easier than going face to face to AA, and when she is ready, she will explore either resource. As sick as she is, it does not sound like she is there yet.

Lav, this weather is just wonderful and tomorrow, even cooler, but with lots of rain. Loving it. What are some of your favorite fall recipes? I need to get a list together and start cooking more, we have been going out and I am not happy with the weight I have gained. Plus, it is fun to cook when it is brisk outside. White Chicken Chili tomorrow in the crock pot tomorrow, doesn't that sound good?

Have a great day.

[Lavande]

Sweet September

Good morning friends & Happy Hump day!

I see the heavy rain has flooded the west coast & is making it's way here to the east coast. Be careful everyone

Dill, I hope your friend at least stays in touch with you & doesn't isolate herself further. We all know how dark & lonely it can get. Cutting thru someone else's denial is not an easy thing to do. She sounds like she could use some help in the depression department too. It's a good place to start - it was for me.

Star, I am in the process of searching for some new Fall food favorites. My old favs either have too many calories or just don't agree with me anymore. Yesterday I made millet croquettes! They were actually good, even YB ate them :H
The Best Millet Recipes | Easy Healthy Recipes
I am searching for more gluten & dairy free options & these fit the bill.
I made this delicious Cashew Cream of Mushroom soup on Monday"
Cashew Cream of Mushroom Soup - Vegan Sparkles with Rebecca Weller
Unfortunately I decided to bake a couple loaves of bread to go along with the soup & hurt my gut. When am I going to learn to stay away from gluten entirely?

I need to get to Curves, deliver eggs & get back here for some work.
Have a great AF day everyone! Hi there Papmom & Cyn!

Lav

[Stargazerlily]

Sweet September

Good morning...

It has cooled off a little, not the big change that was predicted. Maybe later today. Either way, the 90s are history for now.

Lav, thanks for the links, I will be sure to explore. I wish I could eat nuts, they are so versatile. However, I swell up immediately and it is easy to stay away as the suffering and medicines are just not worth it. Happy to hear you can go to Curves, good for you. That foot is healing slowly but surely.

Dill, Cyn, Pap, have a good day. Work for me, then relax this evening. Still getting used to working five days, but loving having my evenings free.