hey pauly ..how are you feeling today then?birds of paradise and bougie plats ..grrr..love to grow them properly ! my bougie has got little purple leaves on it so mebbe is going to grow up!you got plans for today?..seriously tho ,hope you are feelin better..
hiya Lav,how are you today then?all pooped out after a house full yesterday?take it quiet weekend on the cards?lot of ingenious and off the wall thinking going into this planter ..some right Heath Robinson stuff going on!! will explain it when its done..
hiya Det..how are you feeling today..read all this thread before replying ..and it made more sense to reply to SF before you ..but going to reply the way the posts came out..so you drank...the hows whys and wherefores..really now are history ..consign them as such and move on...you can do it mate..
hiya ppqp...glad the eye is on the mend....getting the bbq out and having some shrimp?man oh man ..I wish..def not bikini weather here ..well wouldnt be for me anyways!!!have a good visit with your dad today..
hiya pie ..you never made another appearance so guess you are pretty much done in ...how are you today then?up bright n breezy?any plans for the weekend?
hia SF... Gotta hand it to you ..a really interesting fred you put up..think the first thing we have got to realise is the fact that we are all individuals with totally different approaches ,willpower, goals, tolerance levels ,stubborness the whole keboosh..I also understand about that the grass for some people that to close one of the options off is a frightening thought..ie I wont ever be able to drink again..I remember thinking that when I quit but somehow it has disappeared..how or why I dont know..
think you are right about being target driven too...our lives revolve round targets /objectives goals call them what you wish..even to quitting drinking..but I think they are needed as a focal point ..because the alternative is .."you are never going to drink again"mebbes that should be refocussed or rephrased to .."you are going to live healthier today ,so how can we achieve that..ok today we wont drink and smoke" there are so many mixed messages out there ..the bottom line is we are here because for us there is no middle ground..I can only speak for me but even now I know that if I started drinking..it wouldnt be a beer then stop..that stop bit doesnt exist in my make up..it would be beer and anything else available I know that even now almost 3 years down the line!!
as for not being a real alkie...quite pleased actually that you think that..not really bothered what label alkie pisshead,bevvy merchant, dependant is put on it..I do know that I was sick and tired of every single day drinking a t least a quart of vodka and 2 cans of super strength lager even more at weekends ,and hiding the bottles,then forgetting where I had put them,chancing my arm driving,pulling up to the off licence on my way home ,sometimes buying a couple of small bottles before I got home,making excuses why I wasnt too great when in actual fact I was half shedded,doing more at the weekends and either making up reasons why I couldnt drive the next day or praying that I wouldnt get caught..and dont forget ...a t least a quart of vodka and 2 cans of super strength lager this was my sneaky drinking ..that is before I would sit down and have a "couple of legit beers in the open..and they would be superstrength too..thats why I dont drink ..no longer a slave to that crap!! theres lots more ,but I guess we have all got similar experiences..all this whilst being a Senior Manager having to function on a daily basis in some pretty high up company and places..All I can say is I feel that I have changed,others including my family tell me I have so what does it matter?
great post...
right then time to go and spend money ..now that is harder for a scotsman!!!big shout to all missing bear dtd,narilly sam et al.....have a good one..
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