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    Mindfulness March-2017

    Hey all,didn't see a thread so I started this hope the name is OK,Star where are you? You're usually up around the same time as me,hello Lav,Cyn,SK and all the readers,here's to a fabulous March
    I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

    I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
    Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

    #2
    Re: Mindfulness March-2017

    Thanks for starting up the new month for us pauly
    Hope your day was a good one.

    Happy Hump day everyone.
    Had an OK day, nothing special. The weather folks had us geared up for the thunderstorm of the century that never really materialized - figures. Do they ever get it right?

    Star, sure hope everything is OK with you. I know there were serious storms n the Midwest yesterday

    Cyn, I hope you are slowing down a bit but you probably are not
    Thank you for your massive efforts in the political-sphere. Keeping our focus & energy levels up is not going to be easy!
    I imagine your husband is getting home soon? Hope he is on the mend.

    Hello to SK, hope you are healing well. Are you still dealing with those Texas T storms?

    Wishing everyone a peaceful night & fabulous month of March!

    Lav
    AF since 03/26/09
    NF since 05/19/09
    Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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      #3
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      Rabbit Rabbit Happy Hump Day all -

      Thanks for the startup Pauly! A new month, hmmmm. Hope that it really is a little more Mindful - thanks for the name. I thought of you today when I packed a lunch for myself before I headed out. It's not such an easy habit, but I hope to get used to having something ready and portable to take with me. Good luck on your food stuff!

      Lav, how are things with you? I'm glad that your storms didn't show up. We had quite a bit of rain and dense fog into the afternoon. I took the poodle back to SD, and it was a little hair-raising on the bit of interstate I had to take. Tomorrow I go to NYC to get HB... I don't think the train is a good idea for him right now, so I'll drive him.

      SK - are you feeling any better? I hope so, and I hope those TX sized storms chilled out for you - maybe you sent them to me?!

      Gotta finish up some writing work now -- I cleaned the house yesterday so it will be relatively dust-free for HB, and tonight I cooked ahead (mostly for me). I feel like a lot of stuff is getting dropped, but oh well, what can a person do? Just carry on I guess.

      Star are you OK? Kinda worried about you - sending hugs, hope all is OK.

      Glad to have one guest-dog free night before Mr comes home - then it will be a little bit of a circus, but hopefully we'll get him well-er here at home. Stay tuned.

      Wishing all some peace tonight.

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        #4
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        Good morning...

        I am OK, almost 200 days AF, just having some problems at work and forgot to set my alarm yesterday, got up pretty late for me, I did not have it in me to think up a name for the thread and post. For some reason my boss has been really negative and yes, disrespectful to me, it is upsetting, I am doing my job the way I always do, not sure what is going on. I am talking to her this morning about what she said and asking for clarification, also, to be spoken to in a respectful way. Hope it goes well. I am really upset and pissed off too. Very pleased I have over six months AF, I know I have nothing to hide, I believe it is about her, not me, but still. I feel I am too old to put up with attitude. I could see if I was slacking, coming in late, causing trouble, etc., but nothing like that is going on. So, I need to take care of it, and that does not make for great sleeping, I can tell you.

        Pauly, thanks for the Mindfulness March thread, let's hope this month is better than the last two, 2017 has been full of challenges for me, just not alcohol ones. Hope you are doing well.

        Lav, get ready, it got super windy and much colder here yesterday and today, highs only in the high 30s, more winterlike, but still not bad. We did get some really bad storms, but are OK. Actually, we needed the rain and moisture. We watched some of 45's speech, it was terrible, he is such a bullshitter, fake, liar. He is so full of himself I felt sick and had to turn it off. Besides the fact he is doing a terrible job. F for him. My son is doing a little better second week of new job, he is having friends over this weekend from school, I hope he makes good choices. He is still struggling to take care of normal things like calling the internet people, taking out the garbage, stuff like that. Sad.

        Cyn, hope your hubby feels better, poor guy. Resting at home with good food for a week or so will be very helpful to him. Sometimes we work, then go on vacations that are even more exhausting, not a good set up for health. I know my husband caught the bug going around, on his day off he just rested, then each day made sure to do the same after work, and was able to kick it pretty quickly. I understand that time off when you are sick is frowned upon at many jobs, ridiculous. Make sure to relax too, you deserve it.

        Well, have a good day all, AF of course.

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          #5
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          Morning friends,Star,glad everything is OK I only watched the tail end of DT's speech,I take it he hired a writer finally no more grabbing anyone's p':$$y! His followers absolutely believe he's doing a brilliant job so whatever,Cyn,glad hubs will be home for some R&R he needs it,you do too Lav,hope you don't get hit by any storms,can't trust the weather man anyways, sheesh I want that job no skill required just point at the green screen alrighty wishing us all a great AF Thursday
          I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

          I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
          Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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            #6
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            Hi all -

            Star, so good to hear that you are OK! So sorry about not being respected at work... no excuse for that, I know that you must be a phenomenal worker. I hope that your talk today went well. It must be about her - she's probably acting out because of something going on in her life or work. So excited for your almost-200 days!

            Pauly, you crack me up! That was so funny what you said about the prompter - ha ha, it is really true.

            Lav, did you suffer from this wind? Holy Cow, what a night last night - it sounded like a freight train was going by the house all night. I drove to NYC, but the wind lessened as I went, so not too bad on the driving. But now the dreaded leaves are all over the lawn and gardens, DANG! I hope you and the girls (out in the coop) are staying warm and strong.

            SK, are your storms over with yet? I hope you don't have any cold or ice in the future.

            I am back home with HB. Star, he got this from working in NYC - so many bugs there. And he works in a place where there are people from all over the world, so who knows what all they bring with them. He was really lucky that the work he had to do these last 2 weeks he could do from the apartment... that was really great. He was nuts having to stay in, but at least he didn't lose the job. He's off now for 5 days and then will return and have to go into work each day, 6 days a week. So I plan to get him in tip-top shape.

            I'm on more writing deadlines, so need to shove off now. Wishing all a peaceful AF evening, and a great day tomorrow.

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              #7
              Re: Mindfulness March-2017

              Good evening friends!

              Yep we had a windy night & day but no problems & somehow the power stayed on. Now we are being told to expect snow showers tomorrow, we'll see about that, ha ha!

              Star, glad to see you are OK!
              Sorry you have to deal with a miserable person at work. Funny (not funny I was just thinking about someone I worked with back in the late 70's & how she took it upon herself to critique everyone's nursing notes. I told her to get off my back & that she 'wasn't the boss of me', ha ha! She really had no business reading what others were writing, she was no one's boss. English was her second language anyway & she wasn't that good at it either.
              Your son will come along in time, I'm sure. A few gentle shoves in the right direction never hurt

              Pauly, I was only able to tolerate a few minutes of 45's speech then I muted the sound on the TV, ugh! Why should I pay to listen to more BS? I think this Russian corruption scandal in the White House is going to take them all down

              Cyn, I sure hope your husband mends well over the next few days.
              I was wondering about his exposure to foreign germs, they can be hard to track & nasty to deal with. I am sure you will nurse him back to good health. I hope your writing is going well & you get some rest too.

              Hello to SK & anyone else stopping by.
              Have a peaceful night everyone!

              Lav
              AF since 03/26/09
              NF since 05/19/09
              Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                #8
                Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                Good morning all...

                Woke up with a leg cramp, I was so busy yesterday I did not drink enough water, geez, talk about being sensitive, this is ridiculous. Our TV went out so after work, hairapy, then TV shopping, we finally had it put up and together at 9:30; that was a long day.

                Lav, talked with my boss and it was a good talk, we straightened out most things, I do not want to look for another job, and the insurance is so great, like most of the people I work with, thank goodness, it was OK. I mean it, I really thought I was going to have to look for a new job, I just won't be treated disrespectfully. We have alot of consultation, and she has been overloaded and crabby, so good to meet fresh in the morning and in a better mood. Really glad it is Friday, I will tell you that. My daughter, SIL, and grandson are spending the night, so that was unexpected and a special treat. I have to leave early tomorrow morning for a workshop, don't want to cancel my own plans, but both kids have the key to our house so they can leave when they choose. I agree with you about the Russian scandals, lets get those idiots out of office before they do more harm.

                Pauly, went and got my hair done, she is such a sweet young women and always does such a great job. Want to look good on my vaca. Haha. Hope your week is going well, today is your day off right? Do something for you if you can.

                Cyn, my you are busy. We are FB friends now, I appreciate the request, I meant to do it, but forgot. I have so much going on right now, but I know you do too. Hope you and hubby enjoy a little R & R. Is the weather cold up there? That is condusive to watching TV, resting and eating alot of soup. Reading some good books too is always nice, at least in my book. I am gong to make sure to take my tablet on my trip as I have lots of books downloaded I have not read.

                Happy it is Friday, busy weekend, looking forward to not being at work. Haha.

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                  #9
                  Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                  Morning friends,Star,where are you going? I totally missed you saying you were going on vacay lucky! I'm planning on a short visit to California in June cuz I want to take Lou to the beach,just a quick trip though cuz I get sick of L.A in a matter of hours haha,must go visit my mom and dad too,the hardest part is everyone getting time off from work but hubs and I are gonna hafta go away without them once this summer, they'll just hafta deal.I'm not seeing my family members enough and its just not right,Cyn,I hope you guys can take it easy this weekend, you're always so go,go,go! Rent some movies and kick back Lav,I got the help of NS and I plan to do a gf for 30 days challenge, I'm a bit worried about sticking to it but I need to feel better,I'm too damn young too feel so old!! Hubs just told me that an 80 year old woman got hit by a car right around the corner last night while jaywalking and I just said its pretty sad that an 80 year old can stay up later than me haha! Anyhoo,I hope we all find a little bit of overwhelming happiness today,if only for a minute or two its fine,we're alcohol free and sexy(not really but it kinda ryhmed) have a great Friday
                  I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                  I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                  Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                    #10
                    Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                    Evening all - great to hear from you all. We are hanging in here - HB has turned the corner on this 21 day day flu, thank goodness. Now I am trying hard to stay well... I got pretty rundown with all these trips everywhere, and I keep feeling like I'm going down, but so far all my home-cures are working, whew.

                    Star, so glad your conversation worked out! Good for you for being prepared and being calm and organized as you approached the whole thing. Have fun wherever you are going! And have fun with your daughter and grandson - what a good time.

                    Pauly - whatever you are doing with your food, it seems like you are feeling better - I love the jokes you are cracking! Good luck with the GF challenge, it sure makes a difference for me when I am careful.

                    Lav, I am grateful often that I don't have cable - no chance to stumble across you-know-who. I can't bear to see/hear him or most of the players in that circus. I can't even listen to NPR anymore, sad. I have been so busy that I haven't kept up with my calls, but will get back to it. I am having a big meeting on Monday, so I'll get back in the groove.

                    Wishing all a happy, AF night. Care for yourselves and let that love radiate!

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                      #11
                      Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                      Good evening friends!

                      The cold air is back in town, ugh. It's supposed to be 14 degrees when we wake up tomorrow, ridiculous

                      Star, glad things are sorted out at work!
                      I don't know about you but I always found working primarily with women can be tough. The hormonal ups & downs, personal & family stress stuff being dragged into work, etc just made for a touchy workplace. When I was young I used to be jealous of the relative calmness of the older nurses. When I got older & looked at the younger ones I was grateful to be done with that age & stage, ha ha!
                      Enjoy the family & have a good weekend!

                      Pauly, I've been to California twice but never LA. I enjoy the northern coastal areas. How long does it take to get there from Las Vegas? I hope your 30 day gluten free challenge goes well for you. It may not be as hard to do as you think especially if you start feeling better in the process.

                      Cyn, I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. You have to stay healthy to keep fighting the fight Glad your husband is doing better.
                      I am doing my best to stay in the resistance game. I received to email responses from PA legislators today, not bad. Of course Senator Toomey is still in hiding (I think he needs a pink pussy hat).

                      Wishing everyone a peaceful & warm night!
                      Lav
                      AF since 03/26/09
                      NF since 05/19/09
                      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                        #12
                        Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                        Good morning...

                        Had a great night with the fam, I picked up food from Olive Garden, it was just easy after work and I ordered online. Everyone loved it of course. We all straggled in at different times so it was casual, make a plate as you come in. My grandson was so adorable, almost three is just the cutest age, he is talking and says things so cute, just love him. Also, my son came over and seemed alot better, he has been taking tumeric for inflammation and brain fog and exercising every day, drinking lots of water and seems better. So, we are all on our healthy journeys.

                        Cyn, so glad you are home now and can take some you time, relax, have some peace, routine. I know at the end of our vacation last summer, we had to come home early due to back yard renovation and we enjoyed just being home, getting things done, taking naps in the afternoon, walks, whatever, and not having to rush around or meet schedules. I would do a staycation again. The political situation is disgraceful, the AF lying to Congress, recusing himself from some investigations, just not acceptable. The Republicans need to get an independent investigation, all the ties with Russia (who is not our friend, no matter what 45 says) have to be scrutinized and corrected. I am afraid for our country. Our rights and freedoms, rules of law are being chipped away, in both little and big ways. Lots of prayer and action is needed.

                        Pauly, next week we are going on one of my bucket list vacations: Driving from San Francisco to LA. We are flying out on Saturday, two days in SF, then one night in Carmel by the Sea, down through Big Sur and staying in a small town by San Simeon after a tour. Then the biggest drive down the coast to Santa Monica, for two nights, right on the ocean, for a beach day and tour day of Hollywood as my husband wants to see the sights. So, it will be an adventure. We were married young, no money, kids right away and vacations were to family or in cabins in Michigan or Wisconsin, to fish and swim. Now, we can take a little time to explore the world, right? The only person who drinks on this trip is my brother, my SIL never has or if she does drink, not much, she told me in the past she just doesn't like the way she feels the next day and does not want to waste an entire day recovering. Smart lady. Another adventure today and tomorrow is a workshop on energy healing, lots of deep breathing and meditation for the next two days, right by my house, I was so surprised when I looked up the workshops and found one so close. Very excited for today. I won't get anything done in my house but oh well.

                        Being almost 200 days AF is making all the difference for me, I want to live and do fun things, plus be able to take care of business. My energy levels are better and as I continue to heal and take a liver tonic, I plan on moving forward. Have a great day all.

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                          #13
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                          Morning friends,Star that sounds like a nice trip I've never been to San Francisco, too cold and crowded from what I've heard but very beautiful Lav,it only takes 4 hours to get to LA from here,well its supposed to but with traffic when we hit close to LA its about 6,I'm starting to get afraid of gf for a month now but I'm taking a shot at least,it does take a lot of practice, Star,I'm glad you're enjoying your family Cyn,hope you can relax today, I can't believe your hubs' illness lasted for so long! I am dreading working with those hookers today!! Saturday I don't have my friend at work so its just me alone in the lions den last Sat I had to speak up to them cuz they were all on their phones while a customer sat waiting! I took him and he said he felt transparent sitting up there waiting, nobody even greeted him and I was doing a blow dry so I wasn't really paying attention to the front, anyways I cut his hair and thanked him for waiting, gave him my card and told him just call me next time and I'll get him in immediately, I was so angry that day!anyhoo,I really hope we all have an easy AF Saturday
                          I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                          I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                          Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                            #14
                            Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                            Good evening friends!

                            Cold here today, oh well.
                            As most of you have seen I treated myself to 6 baby chicks today
                            I have been missing my old chickens, believe it or not, ha ha! Orpingtons are so much nicer than this breed I currently have (Rhode Island Reds). I am tired of having my hands bitten open every time I go near them. There is only one out of 20 that is actually nice to me, LOL
                            I figure when these 6 grow they will take over the hen house & put the RRIs in their place

                            Star, your vacation plans sound great. I hope you have a wonderful time
                            Your grandson sounds like a happy kid & that's what we want, right?
                            My son stopped in this afternoon with the boys & left the oldest with me for a few hours. I've missed EB & our time together so it was nice. I drove him home after dinner but didn't go inside. Not wanting to confront my DIL & have my mood wrecked.

                            Pauly, San Fran is not cold by any means. I love that city, have been there twice.
                            I hope your drive to LA is not too bad.
                            I hope the b*tches at work weren't too bad today.

                            Cyn, I know you are busy & hope everything is going well

                            Every morning brings more jaw dropping news re 45.
                            I seriously think this guy is paranoid & delusional. Time & proper investigations will tell I guess.
                            Have a peaceful evening everyone!

                            Lav
                            AF since 03/26/09
                            NF since 05/19/09
                            Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                              #15
                              Re: Mindfulness March-2017

                              Good morning...

                              Lav, I saw those cute little baby chicks, glad you got what you wanted! 45 keeps saying outrageous stupid things to keep the attention off the awful things he is trying to do. An investigation is needed, right now. So corrupt, it is unbelievable. I've never been to San Francisco, but know the weather is cooler, this is not a tropical beach vacation. Also, it is all relative, we live where the winters are WINTERS, usually, so 40s to 60s is temperate for us. Pauly lives in Vegas, where it is warmer.

                              Pauly, I have a few other bucket list vacations, and will work on going on alot of them in the next few years, never know what your health will be like as you get older, and sometimes the window of opportunity closes. Any fun activities this weekend? Hope your Saturday was peaceful and calm. The workshop day one was pretty good, nice people, lots of deep breathing and body work, so it felt good physically and emotionally. Day two more of the same. I had tons of energy when I got home so cleaned the house and took care of business. Busy week ahead. How is the gluten free diet going? What types of things are you eating? Good for you, hope you feel better quickly.

                              Cyn, hope your weekend is going well.

                              Have a great AF Sunday.

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