Motivated in May

[treegirl]

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Morning all -

Well, big rain here last night; I will have to check the de-humidifier in the basement- I'm sure the tank is full. We seriously need some grading here to help with all the water flow around the house, sigh. It's in THE LIST.

Lav, I hope your baby plants survived the night. My screen porch had bubble wrap on all the windows until these last big wind storms. Tired of the flapping, I finally tore down most of them yesterday, but that may have been hasty... I wish they were still up because of the pollen... yesterday I saw a film of pollen on top of the grill cover that just made me stop and stare - it was all yellow! Eeek!

Star, so glad that you found that book! I hope that it helps define a beginning path. When I left my first career, it took me some time to get things sorted out too, and that book was useful. Maybe since you have such strong feelings about the political situation you could look into some activism? We all need to be putting the pressure on our Senators now to block this terrible bill... Indivisibleguide.com will give you tools, or help you find a group if you want. I am working hard on state legislation that will provide protections in health care on the state level even if the national care goes down the tubes... we have a 50/50 split in our state congress, so we also clearly need more seats in the 2018 election. It's all related... Good luck finding all your paths!

Pauly, Miss You girl, please come back!

Wishing all a great Sunday, AF of course...

[NoraC]

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Just wanted to give an update. I know that we have all been worried about Pauly. :sad:
I was able to text with her today. She said that she is not drinking but that she is taking a break from MWO.
To be honest I am still worried about her. I let her know that we are here for her.

[Lavande]

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Greetings friends,

We had another day of mostly clouds, a bit of sun, rain, wind gusts - everything but snow, ha ha. Strange for the beginning of the second week in May!

Star, I really prefer cooler weather, great for working outdoors. I am not fond of all the mud though, yuck. I looked like a real farmer yesterday tossing straw bales into the chicken yard to help soak up some of the mud, ha ha!
Still no word from my DIL today, good thing I wasn't expecting one!

Cyn, it actually did not get all that cold last night so the plants all stayed happy
I have a feeling that all of our hard work will pay off in the end. The US deserves better than what we have in Washington. The citizens of this country deserve better. I was very happy to see the results of the French election today & if they can elect a decent person for their president we can too.
I sure hope your de-humidifier did it's job today!

Nora, thanks for stopping in to let us know about Pauly. We all miss her & hope for the best for her.

Have a peaceful night everyone!

Lav

[Snoopy56]

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Good morning...

Nora, thanks so much for letting us know that Pauly is taking a break. Hopefully she knows we miss her and will welcome her back if she decides to give it another try.

Lav, we had cooler weather too, it was awesome, got lots of yardwork done and cooked out. Peaceful day.

Cyn, thanks for the website, I have time now to look it up and see what I can do. Bought a used copy of the recommended book so that should get here in a week or so, but that is OK.

Have a great AF Monday.

[treegirl]

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Hello friends -

Brrr! Somehow the cold finally got to me today... I wasn't out working in it, but was out dropping off my car (sob) to get it fixed up early this morning and I got cold and have never really warmed up again. Maybe my blood had started to thin out when we were in a warm clime, i don't know.

Nora, may thanks for letting us know about Pauly. I will continue to send love and light her way, please tell her we miss her if you have more communication...

Star, I am ordering books too. Today I ordered a book that looks really great that is about reversing the effects of osteoporosis. I have osteopenia, and my naturopath was worried when she saw my tests. She recommended a book that looks very good - all readers on Amazon raved about it. Since it sounds like a book I will return to over and over, I got it in a paperback, not a kindle which was optional. I'll have to wait a couple of days to read it, but worth the wait. The author is a male doc who went from full-blown osteoporosis to doing the iron man (not a goal of mine) so it should be a good system. Getting our bodies back into an alkaline state seems like it is super-important.

Hey Lav, I was going to get outside this morning and work in the sun, just pulling up the dang violets that are starting to get out of hand again in the garden beds. But I had to wait to take HB to the train to the city, and by the time I got back, I was too cold. And really tired! I think the last 2 days of pushing more than 2 hours a day out in the land took more of a toll than I thought. And then last night I made appetizers to take to a dinner at a friend's, so there was no break... I am pooped today and very achey. Dang, I need to be able to work like I did last year! I was not happy yesterday, a lot of what I thought I had accomplished before I left didn't seem to take hold, so I am trying to keep perspective... sigh.

Yes, I think our efforts are a good thing on the political front. At least it keeps me from going crazy!

Wishing all a safe, warm AF Monday night.

[Lizann]

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Thanks Nora! I came here to see if she posted here. I am worried about her too.

Hello all. How's everyone one here? Quiet on the steppers thread, thought I'd pop over here and catch up!

[Lavande]

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Greetings friends,

Yep, it is chilly here but I don't mind all that much. It's just kind of weird for the gardens & flowers & everything. I have hummingbirds here already, I hope they don't decide to go south for warmth. Nothing super special going on here but that's fine with me

Star, it's good to get a routine going. I never ever get bored. I always have something waiting for me to do, ha ha! My business has been super slow so I am cleaning out closets & corners, etc & warning YB that I will not tolerate any complaints. He's a hoarder, I'm not, ha ha!

Cyn, do you ever suffer from anemia? When I read your post, that's the first thing that came to mind. The second thing was hypothyroidism - similar signs & symptoms.
Has the moon bothered you the past few night? It has bugged me something terrible, not much you can do about that either.
I hope your car feels better very soon.

I laughed this afternoon reading about Ted Cruz 'mansplaining' Constitutional Law to Sally Yates. She set him straight, quite effectively.

Liz, nice to see you. It's been quiet around here too like some other threads.
We are all on the lookout for Pauly & hope she checks in soon.
Has your grandbaby arrived yet? I forget the due date (granny brain), Lol

Wishing everyone a peaceful night!
Lav

[Snoopy56]

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Good morning...

Up early today, that's OK, I am going to exercise class at 8:30 and have other errands to do that will take up a large part of my day.

Lav, I don't know if it is boredom but isolation, loneliness, not getting out into the working world, but I am trying to reach out to neighbors and others and I know it takes time. I know what you mean, we have lots to do here, closets, cleaning, touch ups, yard work, and then the normal things to keep a household going. Next week the baby comes and I am so excited and a little nervous too. My daughter is so cute but very uncomfortable right now, ready to have the baby today if he wants to come. Talked to my brother yesterday and he has all kinds of trips planned, it sounds exciting but the reality is that it is alot of work and pressure. I have been thinking that I want peace where I am. I would also like to find a cause or a purpose outside myself, I need to get the newspaper again to find out what is going on in my community. I want to say thanks for the FB posts you share regarding politics, I do hope that most of what you post is true, and that enough people will get together and get the bad ones out next year and be able to change any bad legislation that is pending. I have to say I am disappointed in the media, when the other side talks about access, access, they do not come back and ask about affordability, and are not tough enough. It's hard when you come up against straight up liars though.

Cyn, the book you mentioned sounds very useful, I agree that anything and everything we can do to stay healthy is so important. I also notice that with myself when I come back from a time away from home there is always an adjustment period, I need extra rest, and if I don't I get sick. I have been taking naps a few days a week since I am off and it really helps me get that second wind. We still have lots of yardwork to get done and we have a tiny yard, so I can imagine the things you have left to do. I have been reaching out to my next door neighbor, a single woman with two dogs. She is supposed to go to the book club with me and has asked me to watch her dogs when she goes away for the weekend. I would be happy to do that. They are nice dogs and she has a doggy door so it would just be food, water and maybe a walk or two. That would be fun and I would not have to get another dog. Haha. Taking from my Yoga classes, I have been trying to set my intentions each day, while reading my Unity prayer/focus and have notice peace and patience are two main themes. I think gratitude should be another.

Pauly, when you are ready you will come back. I don't think it is a bad idea to take a break at all. Do what you need to to take care of you. But, we miss you and your presence.

Have a meaningful AF Tuesday.

[treegirl]

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Hi all-

Lizann, so nice to see you! Sending you best wishes for all the big events in your life - I too have forgotten when the showers and baby and wedding is all happening. Good luck!

Lab, my blood work is always just fine, and I've been tested over and over for thyroid issues. Whatever. I'm hoping that the switch to alkaline will help... and I'm to see my GP at then of of the month food a physical, and the naturopath wants some other tests. I'm a mystery! Oh well, I'm managing. Glad that you are keeping busy, lol!

Star, glad that you are resting - remember how much energy it took you to get through all these changes. Good to be careful!

Well I'm on the train to the city for this late dinner...
I can't bear typing another phrase on this phone!!!!

Wishing all AF and we'll...

[Lavande]

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Good evening friends!

Another cool day here but with lots of sunshine, nice

Star, it's not easy finding a comfortable place for ourselves after a certain age - at least that's what I am finding. I know myself well enough & I know where I do not belong. It's just finding that sweet spot where you can be your true self & feel helpful & contributing to society in some way. Does that make sense?
I guess keeping our eyes & ears open & maybe be willing to step out of our comfort zones a little would be useful.
You are definitely going to have some excitement coming your way very soon & that's awesome. It's great that the new baby will be arriving before the heat of summer & all that.

Cyn, alkaline eating the way Vivian Goldschmidt recommends is not bad at all. Some days I miss the target a bit but make up for it on other days
I actually feel better all over eating 80% alkaline. It's easier to do this time of year when we have access to great farmer's markets too.
Glad your bloodwork is OK, I just made an appointment for mine for the 15th.

Pauly, hello to you!
Hi there Liz.

Have a nice night everyone!
Lav

[Snoopy56]

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Good morning...

Hello to Liz and Nora, I guess I missed your posts! Please feel free to stop by anytime. Liz, I know you are having a new grandbaby soon too, it is so exciting, we are very lucky. Nora, thanks for keeping us updated on Pauly. Miss her.

Lav, it is challenging to find our place late 50s, early 60s and beyond. Work outside the home or not work, how busy do we want to be? I look back and understand I have been so busy for so long, however long I decide to have this last, it is working for me now. Looking for that sweet spot you spoke of. Sometimes I feel guilty but think I am taking on society's expectation that we should always be busy, going somewhere, doing something, planning something, and I just want to enjoy where I am at for a time.

Cyn, its hard when you don't feel good and the doctors can't find a clear diagnosis. Eating well and all self care are the positive things you can do daily to feel healthy. Have fun at your dinner.

Have a happy AF hump day.

[Lavande]

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Good evening friends,

How was Hump day for everyone? Ha ha!

Star, I saw Pauly make an appearance on FB today, hopefully she will return here as well.
That's always the question for me - how busy do I want to be at this point in my life? The answer is 'not very'!!!! I have gotten over the guilt & habitual thinking that I must be doing 1000 things at a time or something is wrong. I can honestly say that I have been there & done that & am now completely over it, LOL
When I think back to all those years of raising kids, working, caring for sick & dying parents & other relatives, my shift work, YB's shift work - YIKES!! At this point I am just grateful to be alive & relatively well despite the BS I had to work thru to get where I am today. I am just going to remain grateful & forget about the rest
You will figure out what you want & don't want to do, take your time.

Hello Cyn, I hope your day went well.

Pauly, we are here.

Hello to Nora & Liz if you check in.

Good news - YB finally got around to opening the boxes for the pergola today. They have been sitting on the deck for weeks. He is going to need some help at some point so I hope one of the younger men in the family offer. Looking forward to having a shady spot for the summer
Have a nice night everyone!

Lav

[treegirl]

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Hi all -

This will be short, as I just got home!

Long day, to start in NYC, work, then attend this meeting... but so interesting to hear the perspective of our House Rep. There were just 16 of us, the Team leaders for our larger group, so I felt privileged to be there. Lots of interesting information. Esty's goal is to stay positive, talk about what we are FOR, and to thank the Republicans that are standing up for their values rather than the WH agenda, or the party line. She's had 2 bills she co-sponsored signed by Trump so far, so that's good news. All very informative, Great approach. (And to help people to run for local offices and get the pipeline primed for future elections).

I would like to have a less busy schedule, but I am happy working with my clients and feel that the political work is important... looking for balance... it is SO helpful to have my husband home! He took care of the dogs so I didn't have to run in and out to take care of them - they were happy and me too!

Happy night (yes Lav this full moon is knocking my socks off, sheesh!) I wish a lovely sleep to all - hello to Pauly, and hi again to Liz and Nora and anyone else dropping by.

[Snoopy56]

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Good morning...

Lots of storms went through last night, good night for sleeping.

Lav, it is warmer and humid again, I felt sweaty all day trying to get used to the change in weather. Maybe warmer weather is here to stay, I don't know. I have no desire to work full time at a desk again, it is just not something I want to do. Today I am going to exercise and work on my office project. Tomorrow I am going to visit my daughter and take her out to lunch, the last time we will be one on one for a long time. Looking forward to the visit. You are going to love having a pergola, what a nice place it will be to sit out and read, have an iced tea, visit. Lucky you.

Cyn, the political meeting sounded interesting, thanks for being part of a movement that is trying to get us back to a positive direction. It is great your husband is home and you can enjoy him and get some help with the doggies.

Hello to all and have a good one.

[paulywogg]

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Morning friends, everyone sounds good I debated coming back just cuz I hate sounding like a broken record! I'm a week sober after a nasty drinking binge,I...just..couldn't.. stop,it was awful and I don't want to talk about it this morning, I'm just glad I have a week and I want to move forward,I need to get a better mindset or something, I just dont understand! Michelle made it back home and stopped by yesterday to get her stuff,she's so tan! I was jealous haha,it was great to see her and I burst into tears hugging her,we'll just have to see how things go with the bf,wishing us all a wonderful AF Thursday