Good evening friends,
We were blessed with another totally decent day weather-wise
My granddaughter is here for two nights so I am happy. Supposed to rain big time tomorrow so I guess we'll find some indoor projects to pass the time.
Star, we have done SO much home improvement with our previous three houses that I no longer have much interest. I remember feeling quite proud of myself after painting a room or papering the kitchen. It feels good to make things look fresh & new. Enjoy your week & your accomplishments
What you mentioned about trying to learn to accept others for who they are - yeah, that's where I ran into trouble myself. YB changed so drastically between the ages of 42 & 43 I suddenly felt like I was married to a stranger. I didn't know what was going on with him & still don't know. I struggled until I was defeated then just sank into a bottle of wine. I gave up. Looking back on that I wonder why I chose to beat myself up over his serious depression....I don't know. I just know that I won't let that happen again, I learned the hard way.
I am more willing now to just say 'OK, whatever' when someone does not meet my expectations & just let it go. We are in the process of learning to be nicer to ourselves, right?
Pauly, I'm just glad that you were able to pull yourself together. We get no where by continuing to harm ourselves :hug:
Remember, I used the birth of my first grandson as THE motivation I needed to finally kick AL out of my life forever. You can certainly do the same & you'll never be sorry.
I don't blame you for wanting to stay out of creepy meetings. Use us as your support group, OK?
Hello Cyn!
Have a nice night everyone!
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