I've been AWOL, fighting crime and crises. (I've kept up with ya'll by reading the posts). You may remember that my husband lost his job (quit/fired after being on probation for losing his temper in the operating room too many times, and this time he wasn't going to be allowed back), and our wedding anniversary was Tuesday (and I hated him), then Wednesday my 19 year old daughter, who is in Central America for college, called to say that someone had stolen her backpack, with everything in it...passport, traveler's checks, cash, camera, ipod, photos, journal, homework, jewelry, everything.
I was so crazed with anger with my husband, but something finally changed in me towards him (I guess I made it change). Rachele, I can understand your frantic panic. Some others have written about how the situation in time has turned out to be the best thing to have happened. I'm starting to see that now. My husband and I are really sharing some deep-down feelings, about what we want from each other, from life, from our family and from our careers. We needed to make some changes. Granted, maybe not all right now! But, we can't always plan when we do LIFE! So, I'm making huge changes, and so is he...
Which brings me to today's question-
What brought about this change in you? What was the impetus to make the change? Sometimes it is one enormous Whammo, and sometimes it is an accumulation of small things that finally brings us here, that quietly says: I need to stop drinking like this.
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