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    Sundry Sunday, February 25th

    Hi Everybody! Today, I have a mixture of things to do. Really, I'm trying to stay particularly busy because in the past, we would start drinking Champagne at brunch sipping into afternoon cocktails. Haven't done that for a long time, but I usually have a drink at lunch. I didn't last week and felt really great about it. But I was running around making and delivering chicken soup to all the sick people from the Synagogue. This week it is a whole different ball game. It is snowing, and though we are all three sitting here together in the family room with our various laptops doing our various projects, sharing along the way, I am counting the hours to cocktail time! I am going to make it though. Fortunately, on Sundays we eat early. I make a traditional chicken dinner every Sunday (roast chicken in the winter). Since we are eating at 5 EST, we start cocktail hour at 3. Then, once again, I'm going to drink tea at dinner. We're going to watch a movie after dinner. So, if I can make it to cocktail hour, I know I'll be ok. Fortunately, since I have been through this everytime I add a new challenge, I know if I go through this a couple of weeks, it will get easier.

    Please everyone - wish me luck and say a prayer for my success! It is really important to me as it is a major turning point.

    On a side note, I did really well yesterday, drinking a couple of glasses of wine during cocktails after the Havdalah service, but diet coke with our pizza and no alochol at the Synagogue home group meeting. And I didn't drink when I got home. So I am making some real headway!

    Mike, I think you are spectacular. I think you are just "top drawer" and your ex must be an absolute idiot. Your children are fortunate to have you in their lives, as you are probably the most positive influence available to them, and there is nothing like having a great father like you through thick and thin. You should be breaking your arm patting yourself on your back for your valor!

    Thanks Judiie for the support. Congrats to you as well.

    Laura, I appreciate your support also.

    Dilayne, we will never kick you off of here, and I always appreciate hearing from you.

    Mary Anne, I'm with Lush -- I have never done six days of abs. And even though it is not on my agenda as a mod, I really admire your ability to do it. I also think you need to let that person's criticisms go. We all love hearing from you. I know what you mean though. I once had someone PM me blasting me for being so up. And though everyone here was so gracious and told me not to worry. I always find myself proofing, thinking "now am I sounding to enthusiastic or over-achieving". I had even considered at one point in posting in long-term mods, since thats where I see myself. But finally just decided that I love this group too much. And unless I get thrown out, this is where I post. I may start posting in long-term mods also, just because it is an underused forum.

    Hope everybody has a wonderful Sunday. I've done my morning schedule, now I am off to read my training for our online store.

    Love to all
    MM
    Saving the day one minute at a time!

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    Sundry Sunday, February 25th

    hope it goes well. I cant believe i,ve done a week AF today. i wont get smug as after donkeys years of boozing this is only the beginning of unpicking my barmy behaviours!

    Still i need to give myself a pat on the back but couldnt have done this without daily spiritual readings...it really works even though i do this on waking and bleary eyed. I then do it again early eve before mt danger zone time of starting drinking around 9pm.

    i plan the evenings, magazines, take a bath, tv, walks, computer, anything except drink. I am sleeping well and i swear i look better in the morning.

    The challenge for me is can i moderate?? At present the target is 40 days of lent AF and review. Doing this with friends and family so have support and the incentive not to weaken. I try not to think ahead as that is scary..so it really has to be one day at a time. goood luck to us all


    Cassy

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      #3
      Sundry Sunday, February 25th

      Hi everybody, I didn't see this thread when I started typing mine..a 1/2 hr ago...
      So we now have 2 Sunday threads going...:goodjob:

      Oh heck...the more the merrier!
      Hope ya'll are having a great Sunday!
      :l Judie
      The only thing worth stealing is a kiss...:flower: zwink:

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        #4
        Sundry Sunday, February 25th

        :-D

        guess what! It's my oldest daughter's 31st birthday today....My God, I still feel about 31! Where does the time go?

        Happy Birthday Dear Amanda!!!

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          #5
          Sundry Sunday, February 25th

          That's funny Fan. I am 31 too!! Di, that is amazing you have a 31-year-old!!! Happy birthday to her!

          Jude, you are so lucky to still have your grandma, and not to mention a real spunky one. I went to visit my grandmother's and mother's grave sites yesterday. It was awful. I "told" my mom I won't be back because I just cannot handle cemeteries and the finality of it all. I know she would understand because she could never go visit her mother's grave either.

          Hope to hear from more of the muffs this week. Last week was a little too quiet. Well off to an Oscars party of which I have not seen one movie nominated. Oh well as long as George Clooney is there for me to look at all will be well with my world..........Have a great Sunday!!
          I'm really easy to get along with once people learn to worship me

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            Sundry Sunday, February 25th

            Aww Lush, I'm sorry about yesterday for you. I can't imagine how hard that must be...:h

            I know I'm so fortunate to have my Family so near...as I chose to be far away for so many years... I think it's true "absence does make the heart grow fonder..."

            Have fun with George!

            :l Judie
            The only thing worth stealing is a kiss...:flower: zwink:

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              #7
              Sundry Sunday, February 25th

              Well, 20 minutes to go to cocktail hour!!!!! Yes!!!!! Thanks Mike and Cassy, really appreciate the support.

              Happy Birthday Amanda!!!! And I agree, Di, they are lucky to have you.

              Cassy, I am very proud of your efforts. I too have found my success in this through "my spiritual support". Under long-term mods, I have shared some of the passages that have helped me (the thread is called "Shared Faith in Healing"). Several of them deal with making a decision regarding AF or Mods). It would be great if you have any particular passages or thoughts that you would like to share on that thread. While there are not many posts, there are several visitors throughout the month.

              Lush, I read your post and tears came to my eyes. You are one brave lady with so much fortitude. I really think that you are such a special person. Wherever your mom and grandmom are, I am sure they are happy knowing that you are who you are! (I, too, think George Clooney is hunk!).
              Saving the day one minute at a time!

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                #8
                Sundry Sunday, February 25th

                Happy Sunday to everyone. That is a real tough one Lush. Can't imagine my parents not being around. Today is so far so good. I just got back from taking my daughter to a "princess" party. They had champagne for the mothers and I had two glasses and had a nice chat with the moms. I felt ackward because all the mothers are good friends and I barely know anyone because the nanny picks up and drops off my kids at school. I really have little in common with these stay at home moms who shop all day and are manicured from head to toe. My hubby took the boys to a "bowling" party and then he is taking them to an awards ceremony for the fishing tournament he was in yesterday. I am going to go to the late mass with my daughter and then going to some "marketing scheme" get together that my little sister is doing which I know is going to result in me writing a check for some kind of crap.....check in later with you guys!
                Sometimes I wonder...."Why is that frisbee getting bigger?"...and then it hits me.

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