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[betty boop]

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Tawny, you should feel really proud of yourself xx

Allie, Stop gloating about that Florida Sun, I can only afford to be there for 2 weeks a year, i'm totally jealous xx

[Saint Jude]

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Hi everybody. Just had a real ruff week...:upset:

Sorry to snivel, but it feels pretty natural right now.
The service for Mema was beautiful. I don't know how people are able to speak at those occasions.

I totally lost it after the service... Hubby isn't used to seeing me upset, and accused me of doing drugs. That didn't go over well at all. I've been very hurt & angry for the past few days. I feel like he abandoned me ... & was anything But supportive. My eyes were so puffy from crying I had to take Sunday night off from work. I've been pretty much an emotional mess since Sat.
Sorry this is such a "downer" of a post.
I guess I just had a false sense of support. I know I'm strong, I've been thru a whole lot more than this. Just need to remember who I am right now. I'll bounce back.
I love you all.
Peace & prayers
:l Judie

[lushy]

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Aww Jude I am am sorry. Perhaps it was hard for your husband to understand just how strongly attached you were to this woman? Maybe he just does not get the depth of your grieving. Remember, I am always available to come slap him. It is what I do, and I do it well. I hope your week starts looking up. We love you!!!

Looks like Fan and I are married according to our avatars.....................

[Beaches]

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Judie,
I am so glad that Mema's service was beautiful and that is so fitting for a woman that gave so much to everyone.
I am so sorry that your husband could not be more supportive especially now. My heart goes out to because you are such a caring person. You have supported so many of us so many times and I hope that you will allow us to the same for you now. xo

[Beaches]

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Let's see Fan and Lush married according to their avatars ...I have to go now:H

[Saint Jude]

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Fan & Lush,
:l :l Thanks so much....
You'd think after being married for 6 yrs, we'd know each other a bit...
Then again, I work nights & he works days.

I do remember back in the "olden days"..when I did do drugs, I felt a lot better than I do right now! Back then nobody accused me of anything either!
GO FIGURE!

[lushy]

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I understand Jude. My hubby and I work the opposite schedule as well. There are days when we go without saying anything but hi and bye to each other and then enough time goes by you realize, "hey, who the hell are you and what are you doing in my house?" And us women know men can be a little, um, dense???

Smart man on the protective head gear Mr. Cleaver. I ain't your typical Mrs. Cleaver.

[Allie]

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Lush... you look like you are ready to smack the daylights out of anybody messin with you with a frying pan!

Judie... you sound a bit like me. Hold it together and then lose it later. She was obviously one special lady. Do you ever wonder how people will react when you die? I think the whole state of Oregon will shut down without you Judie...

I think your husband is just grieving silently. He sounds a lot like my brother. The pain is still the same, just different ways of processing it.

My heart is with you,
Allie

[eustacia]

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Hey, Muffs!

I getting this post in just under the wire.

:l Judie, it must be so devastating to have your husband abandon and criticize you just when you are mourning a beloved colleague, but I think that Allie is on to something. Some people, in my experience, more often men, just cannot handle having their own feelings of loss or potential loss set off. Call it contagion of emotion, or whatever. The fallout is often what you experienced--they attack the person who is overt in her mourning. If you want to put a humorous spin on it, think of a baby in a nursery who starts crying because she wants to be picked up and her twin brother screaming in chorus, ragefully, his little hands and feet flaying the air. That being said, I understand Lush's inclination to take a swipe at your dear hubbie!

Fran, I know the feeling of not being able to drink people under the table anymore. Nice, isn't it?

Beth, I hope that you have a lovely visit with your sister.

Beaches, given the psycho weather in the northeast don't you think Allie should invite us all for a visit?:welcome:

Mary, The Universe was particularly poetic in its prophesy today.

All points lookout for Tumadre and Monica. I've been checking in occasionally over the last couple of months and I haven't seen a post from either. Has anyone heard from them?

Gypsi, if you are reading this, you are in my thoughts, darlin'.

Anyone I'm missing please forgive me. I'm WAY tired!

Eustacia

[eustacia]

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Hey, Mike!

And how have YOU been?

:heart: E