May 24, 2007

[Beaches]

Good morning everyone!

Hope everyone is well. It was crazy hectic around my house with my grandparents, brother etc... We put up a super water slide in the backyard for the kids and they were going crazy on it. I love the warm weather and when the kids can be outside. It's so good for all of us and our mental health

Hope you all have a wonderful day.

[ducky]

May 24, 2007

Good morning Beaches, and everyone who follows.

It sounds like you are having a great time with the kids and grandparents! Enjoy.

Went to dinner and was mods. Had that fleeting thought of a nightcap when we came home but it was fleeting and I went to bed. Feel tired today but not because of a hangover, so that is good. Have a few health issues to sort out here.

Everyone have a great Thursday!

[sammys]

May 24, 2007

Hey, I probably should not even put this post here. I am really having a rough time right now, I feel bad even letting you all know this but I am being verbally abused everyday. It has been going on for so long that I think I have put up a wall most days, but yesterday and today I just cannot find the strength to not let it get to me. I want everyone always to like me and I never let on that this is what is happening to me. I am so upset right now/

Thank you everyone without this site I do not no what would have happened to me by now.


Sammys (I am so sorry but I just did not know what to do right now)

[sammys]

May 24, 2007

I am so sorry to be such a downer, I just feel so lost and alone with this right now. I am really a strong person most days, most years but low and behold I let it get to me.


I promise I will get my shit together by Friday and be back to my same old self.
Sammys

[Beaches]

May 24, 2007

Sammy, I had no idea. You are a strong person and I don't like hearing that someone is verbally abusing you AT ALL. Can you get away from this person...husband/partner or whoever it is?
Take care and I am happy you posted

[gitawine]

May 24, 2007

I hope you can feel empowered to do something about your situation. Be Strong and stand your ground. And if you want to share, we are here to listen!

[sammys]

May 24, 2007

Thanks Beaches I know it sounds crazy and I really do not know how things got to this point either. I never do anything right, am always put down or questioned. He thinks nothing of screaming at me most days, I have put up a wall and do not even realize its happening most of the time but today I just fell apart.


Sammys

[ducky]

May 24, 2007

Wow Sammys, that is a tough situation. You do not deserve to be criticized or yelled at, nor does anyone. If this has been going on for a while it may take some work to change it. Can you speak to him in a "calm" moment? When it happens, can you remove yourself from the situation? Don't know what else to suggest...

[lushy]

May 24, 2007

Awww Sammy, I do not like to hear that at all either. Please do not put up with that kind of behavior. We teach people how to treat us and if he thinks he can continue to get away with it, he will. I suspect he has underlying issues that have not one single thing to do with you and he needs to sort those out. I am so glad you opened up here and please continue to do so if it helps you. Sending you hugs. PM me if you ever need to.

Beaches, Happy Birthday hon!!! I hope you have a great day. You know I think the world of you.

I am looking forward to a weekend to myself this weekend as my family is going out of town. Love them dearly but am looking forward to some alone time.

To all of you wonderful mod muffins have a great day. Judie I was so sorry to hear about your uncle. I hope you are going okay today.......

[betty boop]

May 24, 2007

Hi All,

Beaches 'happy birthday!!!' hope that you have a good day ...

Sammys, so sorry to hear that, be strong love and take care of yourself... Stand up for your self .... Don't apologise for anything you say here, you have all been there for me recently, I don't know where I would be without this site .....

Judie, so sorry for your loss ....

Sorry can't address everyone personally, just off to work but wanted to thank everyone for their support over the last few days, dad is home now.

Love you all, BB xxx

[InnerStrength]

May 24, 2007

Oh Sammys
What a hard and horrible situation. Verbal abuse can tear us down emotionally and leave us with deeper scars than any type of physical abuse. I know. I have been there. It's so bad on the self-esteem, something we often have issues with anyways. Don't ever feel like you can't talk to us. Goodness, don't ever be afraid to be a 'downer' - this place is about loving and supporting one another through difficult times. We are dealing with alcohol issues and there will be lots of deep rooted issues beyond that. Please - and this goes for everyone - dont ever feel like you can't share. Thats what we are here for!
Big hugs!
Jen
And hello to everyone else. I love you all! Happy Birthday, Beaches, my friend.

[ducky]

May 24, 2007

Happy Birthday Beaches,

Hope you are doing something FUN to celebrate!

[lushy]

May 24, 2007

Betty I meant to say I was sorry to hear the procedure did not happen yesterday but I am glad your dad is doing OK. Hope they can figure out something for him.....

[Accountable for Me]

May 24, 2007

Good morning all!

Sammys, please feel free to vent away in here. It does a lot of good to get it off of your chest instead of suffering in silence. Typing it out and reading it may give you some insight as to what is happening, and may give you a source of strength for you deal with the situation.

I have been SO CRANKY the last three days. I cannot seem to shake it at all. I also have a meeting with my new employers this morning and I am not in any head space at the moment. I guess they want to go over my job description and get things set up for when I start. I am feeling so overwhelmed. Not to mention my daughter has been so irritable the last couple of days (probably senses my tension) that she is literally grating on my last nerve. I hate to say this but I can't wait to drop her off at daycare in a few moments. Maybe this will give me a moment to collect my thoughts and I can lower my blood pressure before this meeting at 11. ACK!

Happy Birthday to Beaches and Pansy and of course Determinator. I hope you all have a fantastic day and treat yourselves to something nice.

Have a great day to the rest of you!

[Saint Jude]

May 24, 2007

Just popping in to say Hi! I'm working a day shift today so i just have a second here.

Sammys hope things get better soon. Don't put up with that crap! I know it's hard to get away from it after a while.... I've been there too... Do feel free to vent here though. I think just getting it out can help.

Happy B-day to Beaches & Pansy!

I've gotta run.

Love ya guys!
:l Judie