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[cowgal]

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Uni

Uni, here I sit wiping tears from my eyes, your story really moved me, as for Kennedy, you can NEVER love a child too much, Ihad it the other way around, didn't EVER recieve love from either parent..............think they were incapable of showing it, their parents never gave them any either (can you say disfunctional??!)

Stay strong, hopefully the right person will find you and disprove all you concepts of a man..........I am sendingyou big hugs!! Love you girl, lean on all of us to get you through all this tough time..........you have always been there w/ positive thoughts for me, I will try to do the same now when you need it!!!

Hugs and love!!:l :h

Hang in there,

MA

[bald headed old guy]

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Universal,
Wow, you really had a lot of s**t to deal with in a very short time. I'm amazed you are still standing! Thankfully this group, and a lot of support, and time, will all help. I wish for you all the best, and if there is anything I can do, I will. God Bless!
BHOG

[Ripple]

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Cheer Up Sweetie.

BRAND NEW DAY...........

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Thinking about ya;
Ripple~:h :h

[KateH1]

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Hi Uni,
I have had the pleasure of chatting with you a few times, now. I am so sorry for the tragedy that you have had to deal with. But I know that you are a devoted mother and someday soon, when you are ready, a man, worthy of you will come into your life. I do not believe that one partner does more than the other. A good fit is when both partners feel unconditional love and contentment. I am positive this will come to you, when it is meant to!

I know that you feel very raw and hurt right now, but remember, with all that you have been through, you are "More" than still standing, you are still moving forward!

We are All here for you, I hope you stick around!
Love,
KateH

[Preciouspinot]

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Thank you for sharing that. I hope you find some of us to be good frineds and people you can trust. :welcome:

[HopefulNow]

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Uni,

Wow. Just...WOW.

That's a lot for anyone to deal with. Let alone share.

But I'm so glad you did.

Like everyone has already said, please know you've tons of support here, even though most of us haven't a clue as to what it's like to be YOU.

But we DO have a clue as to what it's like to FEEL like you, at lest sometimes, in our own special, unique and f***d up ways. And that's a start.

Keep posting. We'll keep reading. And caring.

-HopefulNow

[Miss October]

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Hi Universal,

Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. I'm am so sorry for the pain that you have endured. What you need right now is your daughter, lots of hugs, kisses, and unconditional love. You can never love a child too much. That is what they need....that builds the foundation they need to grow and be who they are. Here's some hugs from me to you :l

[livingfree]

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Life ...

Uni - I wept as I read your story. You are a brave woman - and your daughter is a very lucky little girl. Don't ever hold back on her. You will live a balanced life, just knowing what you felt growing up - but embrace her daily and give her the same safety net that I hear when I read your story that your Mom gave you. Your strength will grow and your resolve will deepen. Be gentle on yourself - and the AF days will string together neatly along with the Mod days like a perfect strand of beads all mixed together. Thank you so much for your openness. I know you will be updating your story in time and it will have a beautiful next chapter.
Liv

[Sunbeam]

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Our love goes out to you, in the absence of your mom, to support you in your new future.

[Shaila]

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This is an amazing place to be and help others and in that you are helping yourself in ways that you cant imagine. Sure life is hard and we are all confronted by pain daily - but think of it this way you have your whole life ahead of you and a beautiful daughter.

Anything that your heart desires you can make it happen slowly but surely.

I know this may sound a little strange but have you tried to forgive the people in your past that have hurt you?

Even though they did wrong and nothing was your fault but by being bigger and better than them and just trying to make peace to forgive them will liberate you.

I learned to forgive people who hurt me so badly and its a weight of my shoulder i dont think of them any more sure what they did was wrong but the future is a blank canvass paint on it your dreams and not pictures of the past
love
shaila xxx

[Guest]

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Hi uni,
I missed this when you posted it.........thanks for posting.......it is nice to get to know you better. Am very touched by your post........so much sadness for one person......I am truly sorry for all you have had to endure.

I am yet another "mummy`s girl"..........I love her to bits........know I can always turn to her nomatter what and she`ll be there for me and do all in her power to try to fix all my woes. The thought of losing her fills me with terror and I am almost 43. I worry for my sobriety when this happens........I don`t know that I`ll be able to find the strength to survive such a loss unaided. And, like yourself, I don`t wish my own daughter to be so dependent upon myself that she will struggle to let go when the Happy Hunting Ground eventually calls me.

I`m really glad you`re here and look forward to helping you to overcome your alcohol addiction in any way I can. :l

Much love,

Starlight Impress xxx

[dexterhead]

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Hi Uni: I just finally read this. What a story. A few similarities with mine -- parents had toxic relationship, I have no real relationship with Dad, mom and I are close although it's somewhat an odd relationship. And got dumped by hubby so have trust issues. Also started drinking too much to numb personal hell. But you have had SO much pain .. I am so sorry, sweetie!!! I really hope things begin to turn around. You know, you don't think it, but you are still quite young. And I know you will find true love because you have a huge heart:h:h. Meanwhile, you are such an inspiration to us. :l