In trouble

[one of 7]

like a lot of people on here, I am struggling and I am new. I only found this site because someone I know recommended it.

I've been lurking, but there seems to have been a lot of trouble here lately.

I hope one day to tell my story. but for now, just know that I am lonely, scared, and drunk. I have got the book, looking into the supps. Hypno is not for me...........

I hope you welcome me. I think you will

I have gone in chat sometimes recently and been asked about my name. It means I can't have one drink, I have 7 (or more)

wish me luck
one of 7

[maasai]

In trouble

like your name. welcome here, you joined to the right place,and am sure as time goes you can share your life history it really help.

[ducky]

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Welcome One!

Please feel free to post away. Don't be discouraged by the "trouble" of late. Because this is such a large and diverse group of people, every now and then there is a disagreement or some drama. For the most part it's a very positive place though.

Glad you have joined us.
:welcome:

[Masquerade]

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Hello One -
Welcome to our group. The first step is oftentimes the hardest but we are glad you joined

The drama will pass on the boards. Personally, I feel we who struggle with AL are emotional and sensitive ... God knows I've had a LOT of drama in my lifetime.

Please don't let any negativity deter your journey.
I like your name. Mine would have been "One of 1" ... once I start it is just ONE endless drink.

Have a fabulous weekend .... AF.
xoxoxoxox
-Masq

[meditation mama]

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Welcome, 1o7!

I was in chat with you the other night for a brief moment... I am glad you are here.

Do not be deterred by the drama. That is all it is, just drama. I am sure you have had your fair share in your life, I know I have had my share in mine. Most caused by me..

That is all it is, drama. Don't read the threads that the drama is going on.. just stay away. It will all calm down - let them run amok amongst themselves... I think the universe is just shaking a few things up right now. Read the good threads, there are many. Go back and read people's stories, ask questions, start a dialog in one of the daily threads.

If your goal is to be AF, join one of the daily abstinence threads.. you will be welcomed with open arms and will get a lot of support and suggestions.. We are here to help..

I wish you luck, but a plan is even better... let us know what you need...

Namaste,

MM

[tlrgs]

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hi there ..1 of 7...welcome and we meet in chat last night .and glad to see you decided to stay around
and looking farward to seeing you in chat again. so take your time and enjoy the ride. you are in the right place.and keep on posting...good luck

[one of 7]

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Thank you for your replies. It is truly heartening to know you will reach out to me.

I'm in a mess. Yesterday, I drank from 7am. By the time is was 11.30am, I was vomiting in the sink. Glamorous! I am ashamed of my secret, I am ashamed of myself, and my dirty little drinking habit.

This is not a pity party for me. I just know, now is the time to say STOP! Let's give it a go. AF tomorrow. And yes, why tomorrow - because I've already had a drink today, that's why.

Don't beat me up people. We're in this together and I'm not ready for the tough love just yet.

bye
One of 7

[lukalee]

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Welcome 1 of seven. I hope you stay with us. This is a process, and you have started. Find what works for you and stick with it. There are many daily threads like Fireworks and ODAT. There is no drama there, and you are always welcome.

[meditation mama]

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That's OK, 1o7..

We all have to start somewhere. Tomorrow is a good day to start.

We will be here.

Maybe start the day tomorrow by making sure you have no alcohol in the house, then log on and start a thread - Day 1! We will be here and help you get started, OK?

Please take care today and make sure you eat and get plenty of water.

Thinking of you,

MM

[Last Of The Summer Wine]

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Hello and a warm welcome from me too. Like the others said, ignore the minority of idiots that have spoiled our wee community here lately, everyone is very supportive, kind and encouraging, as you will soon discover. I am so sorry things aren't great for you at the moment, but if you follow the wise advice of this site then the only way is up. Take care today and look forward to a brighter tomorrow.

Many best wishes and :goodluck:
J

[Doggygirl]

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Hi 1of7 and WELCOME!!! I can understand how you feel being new here and walking into the drama. I fell hard off the wagon awhile back, and was a little shocked when I returned a few days ago. BUT...this is an awesome community, and I do believe everything will return to normal soon, and be a very healthy place for you to work at quitting drinking.

I can already see we have some things in common. I'm a day drinker too. 7AM was not all that unusual a start time for me. I'm not sure what time zone you are in - I'm in the Central zone in the US. If you are in that zone or close, maybe we can help each other will a little extra TLC in the mornings / afternoons.

I decided I had enough two days ago on Thursday. I had already had some drinks, but at 3PM I poured out my booze and decided to end it there. So I'm not telling you to dump out your booze today - only you can decide that. BUT...why drink more and more??? At least that's the conclusion I came to. If I want to be sober, I've gotta dump out the booze sometime - so why not now. But of course that will probably only work if you are ready.

Whenever you decide your time is right to dive in to some alcohol free time, we will all be here for you.

Best wishes and I look forward to getting to know you better!!

DG
Day 2 AF **

[paula]

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Hi 1o7 and welcome, wishing you well, I know just how you feel.

[one of 7]

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Hiya again, all, I keep logging in to get replies, and its so nice that you have taken the time to do just that.

Thank you to everyone. Doggygirl, I am reluctant to say where I am due to recent trouble on this site and warnings posted by a lot of people, but I thank you for your encouragement. I wish I had the courage to pour out the booze, not to go out and buy more. Tomorrow is another day, and here's hoping i have your courage. I will try to keep you updated and keep motivated. once i get to trust this place i will share more, although I guess admitting i drink from 7am is a big confession anyway because that in itself is disgusting.

not that it matters but today it was 4 beers, one glass red wine, 2 glasses white wine, some cider. just sucking up the leftovers. what a lovely person i am. i wanna be honest here about my drinking, about the depths i have sunk to. i will return tomorrow determined i promise. I am not a drunk poster. ok, i may be now, but I wont be tomorow.

one of 7 (or more)

[syrrxman]

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welcome one of 7 from one of 12...nice to see you back

Welcome back....good to see you back, liked chatting with you last night, glad you came back. :welcome:

Like I said, 7 would have been a "light" night for me. And don't worry about being judged even by those who have managed to go Af for an extended period of time. I have been Af for 25 days....I'd like to say "yay me" but considering that its probably about the 10th time I have tried to go Af in the last year...hard to be too "yay" about it!!!

But it is my my longest Af time in about 5 years and the encouragement and advice I have receieved on here has helped. Hopefully we can help you some, I know we will want to and will try....at least we will listen and talk.

I guess occasionally there will be drama here especially as people stumble....and occasionally lash out at others when they are really just unhappy with themselves. But I think that is the exception rather than the rule. And even when that happens, there seems to be a rush to care, rather than condemn. So I think you might have found the rignt place after all.

So welcome.....big hug!!!!!

:l

[Marshy]

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:welcome: one of 7. I was thinking that was a Star Trek character but that was Seven of Nine wasn't it? :H

Don't let a few drama queens put you off. There's lots of support and advice here, and no one's going to judge you for your drinking habits - we're all here for the same reason.

Good luck!