I grew up with parents who abused alcohol. My father was abusive both physically and emotionally to my mother, myself, my brother and my little sister. I left home at the age of 14 as i could no longer stand being beaten up. I lived in foster homes, refuges and then on my own since the age of 15. At the age of 16 i returned back home but was thrown out after a couple of months by my father when he was in one of his rages. I went to live with my then boyfriend who lived 4 hours away.
At 17 i was pregnant with my first child and married my ex husband at 17. I knew this wasn't right as he was very abusive and had drug and alcohol problems. By the time i was 19 i had 2 children and then my third at 23.I stayed in this marriage for 10 long years and left when i was 27. Through all the abuse and hardship i never touched a drink.
It was at this time i met my current husband. He is a lovely person and i know he loves me deeply. We started to share a glass of wine together, firstly with me just taking a sip from his glass and then progressing onto one of my own. Within 6 months i was easily drinking half the bottle every night, by 12 months i was drinking a full bottle.
I lost custody of my children to my ex, was drinking heavily by this time and had no will power to fight for them and was also pregnant with my fourth child, who is now 8. I knew i had a problem by now as i could not go a day without Al but refused to admit it.
I married my second husband 5 years ago and have since had 2 more children. One is almost 2 and the other is now almost four months old.
I am so ashamed of what i have done. I drank through my last 3 pregnancies and whilst i breastfed my babies. Baby at breast, wine in one hand and a smoke in the other. I have driven the car with my children in it whilst i have been drunk. I have neglected by babies because i have been so drunk i can not look after them. My daughter has missed school as i have not been able to get out of bed.
All this is very hard to admit to, but i know i have a very serious problem and i have to stop drinking before i kill myself or my children because of stupid behaviour.
I really want to go back to the person i was before i started Al. I was successful, and ran my own company with 8 employees. I was a good mum and kept our home clean and still managed to stay on top of everything even though i was living with an abusive alcoholic husband.
I want to give me back to my family.:upset:
This is the end of Day 1 AF for me. I am trying to stay positive.
Hope you don't mind me sharing.
Comment