This is difficult to even begin but I drink every single night of the week/month/year. I drink red wine almost exclusively and I just went to the kitchen to measure out exactly how much I drink each night in ounces -- +/- 16 ounces per night. I know this is not a great deal to some people and I keep telling myself I don't have a problem because I:
- Feel fine when I wake up
- Hardly ever drink more than my 2.5 glasses (16 oz)
- Rarely drink during the day (only once or twice/year at special events)
- Never drink too much when out in the evenings
- Am productive during the day
However, the little nag inside me says I probably do have a problem because I:
- Drink every night
- Don't consider going to bed w/o my wine even when I arrive home very late
- No longer read at night but only watch television -- not sure if I would read again if I didn't drink or if my not reading is unrelated to alcohol.
- Look forward to 7:00 PM when I begin my wine
- Don't like going out at night even if the place does have wine because I'd rather be home with my wine watching television (weird, huh?)
I have been doing this for a long time. I don't even know how long exactly but probably between 10 and 15 years. I really don't keep increasing the amount I drink, but I'm sure I must have gotten to this amount over time. My husband doesn't mind at all and I'm sure he doesn't think I have a problem. He may have one or two beers a week and certainly isn't a "drinker". I held down an extremely stressful job and just retired three months ago. I didn't have a sick day in 20 years. It is expensive. I never drank while my children were home.
My Dad (died at 67 of lung cancer --he smoked too) was definitely an alcoholic. I hated this growing up and I'm sure it's what stopped me from drinking for as long as it did. Even though I never drank when the children were living at home, I think two daughters have a problem. One started in high school and the other after college. Both function well but I lie awake at night worrying about this. I wish there was something I could do.
Even though I tell myself I don't have a problem, I can't make myself stop. I did order the book and tapes a year ago and did read it and did listen to the tapes and did think it was worthwhile, it wasn't enough to make me stop. I also ordered the L-glut but it didn't seem to have an effect on me.
I sure would appreciate your thoughts. I'm just beginning to realize I don't think I'm going to be able to stop drinking without some sort of help or I would have already done it.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Time2live
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