Every night come 8.00pm after my young kids go to bed with my partner, I lock myself in the bedroom and drink vodka until I pass out. I just can't stand the depression I feel all the time and nothing in my life is going right so I feel it's my only escape from it all.
My relationship with my partner is totally over but we keep pretending there's nothing wrong. He's constantly aggressive, shouting, swearing and upsetting the kids all the time. He never shows me that he cares about me, the only time he shows me any affection (if you could call it that) is when he's after sex. I've come to feel that I can't stand his company. We don't even talk much. He treats me like I'm totally useless. There's so many reasons why I should leave but I'm so afraid. Where would I go? Would my kids hate me for taking them away from him (despite everything they do love him very much)? Would my kids have to go to a different school when they"re happy where they are?
I just keep hiding all this beneath my alcohol. When I don't drink, I just can't sleep at all and lie in bed tossing and turning. I really wish I could find a strong sedative or sleeping tablet but that would involve going to the doctors and telling him everything. I'm scared that he would get social workers involved and my kids may be classed as in danger or even taken away. Although I drink, it's always when they're in bed and I know they're safe in my partners care.
I feel that I'm beyond help and I just don't know what to do
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