Divorce and 203 days AF

[Princess Fiona]

Divorce and 203 days AF

Thank you all so, so very much, saw him today and he got pissed!!! so roles were reversed, he carries on telling me that he is not divorcing me because he has stopped loving me but because he cannot take the chance of me drinking again, hows that for support..... I can deal with tougher stuff, and not touch AL, he hopes that he will not lose me??? so I must hang around and stagnate until he makes up his mind!! I think not....

[inhiding]

Divorce and 203 days AF

Going thru divorce now and drinking more than ever...............hardest thing I've ever been thru........how do you live thru this?

[Lila]

Divorce and 203 days AF

Bottomsup,
Good @@$$%&*#@ question! I didn't. That's when I started and that is why I am here. Pm me anytime, anyone divorcing, we need our own $$#^%&* thread for this.
Good you are here!
Lila

[Princess Fiona]

Divorce and 203 days AF

I will not drink to spite him.... the more he doubts me, the less inclination I have to drink and become more determined. stopping drinking is for me, not for anyone else, but his doubts truly help, he will NEVER be able to turn round and say"I told you so" HA HA in his face.
Today is my 7th wedding anniversary, and just feeling strong, I am happy within myself, and love this new me, no one will destroy me again, they are not worth it, we ARE worth more than they think.
I go to AA and they have been fantastic and I have a sponsor with whom I do my steps with, working the program has been the best thing for me, I am powerless over alcohol, so just don't have the first drink, it becomes easier, and when you see the physical benifits, its wonderful.
Good Luck
LOL