I first found this site after waking up in the middle of the night after a few too many glasses of wine feeling totally disgusted and ashamed of myself...again,and I thought enough was enough!! The site and all the stories were an inspiration to me,I didn't feel so alone and I wasn't the only one who had a professional career,kids,husband,home to manage and a drink problem!My "drink problem" is that I don't know when to stop.I don't drink every day but when I do have a drink I have absolutely no will power whatsoever and the more I have the more I want.It is pathetic really especially at 40! However I managed 23 A/F days ! I was so proud of myself and felt great.It was hard and it wasn't made any easier as I have a lot of friends who drink and I am often in social situations;"Go on just have one" they would say,but that's my problem,it is all or nothing!!
Over the last few weeks I have started drinking again,and have tried my best to drink in moderation! But in the past few days I have slipped back into my drunken ways-I am so angry with myself,my husband is so disappointed in me and I feel ashamed and hate myself so much! I am so disciplined in so many areas of my life but I can't seem to get a grip with alcohol!:upset: With Christmas looming I am at a loss as to what to do-can I survive Xmas without a drink? I am sure I can but it is the social situations I dread and the questions-why aren't you drinking? Are you ill? As you can imagine I have a reputation for liking a drink! I feel like I am rambling now but it has helped to write things down,so thank you for listening and please forgive me for going on and on!!
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