Hopefully today will be the day. My story is common to what I've read in many threads on this site. Today (well, technically yesterday) I woke up with a monster hangover and cursed myself yet again. I managed to polish off a bottle of vodka and while I didn't feel overly sick or vomiting or anything like that, I was really scattered and shaky. I was also thinking some really bad things about myself and how I have wasted my life drinking and what a waste of space that I am. It wasn't until later in the afternoon that it occured to me that I actually had the DT's, and for some reason that realisation finally made me admit I have a problem with alcohol. After that I went online and found you guys. The things I have read here have made me realise that I am not alone in my behaviour, but also my desire to change it.
I am 37 with 2 kids and separated from their father. I have been a heavy drinker since my teens, but since my separation, there has been barely a sober night in 6 months. I struggle with depression and bad self image, and alcohol has long been my crutch. I guess now it is no longer feeling like my crutch, and more like the thing holding me back, the thing that will ultimately kill me.
I guess my reluctance to ever acknowledge I have a problem with alcohol stems from the fact that I have always held down a steady professional job, have never drunk-driven, the type of things that usually typify an alcoholic. What I have come to realise is that while it satisfies the craving in the short-term, it is also causing the problems that make me want to drink in the first place - a vicious cycle.
Thanks for providing this forum where these issues can be dealt with and worked through - it certainly has provided me with the knowledge that I am not alone and the hope that I can one day be proud of myself once again.
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