I married my husband about 8 months ago. He is the most amazing man I have ever met and I feel like he deserves something better.
I was never a heavy drinker... and I don't think I am a heavy drinker... but I guess the first step is to realize that you have a problem.
I started noticing that everytime I drank I would get very angry. It started by accepting my husband's past (drug and alcohol abuse) and I would start fighting with him very loudly. As time went by it only got worse. I didn't notices that I was drinking every day and that I was being mean to him almost every single day.
He says he loves me more than anything but that the emotional rollercoaster is starting to wear him out and that if this continues we won't be able to make it for much longer. I get tired of feeling that anger aswell, but I can't help it. I get drunk and angry. These obsesive thoughts come to my mind and I can't get over them.
I love my husband more than anything and I can't lose him.
I never thought I would be an alcoholic, or have issues with alcohol. But now I'm scared of the future. Specially now that I think this may be bipolar dissorder I have been reading a lot about it and it looks like it. Unfortunately I don't have the money to pay for doctors or medicine, but if I quit drinking I will be able so save money and save my family.
I know that the solution is in my hands only. I get scared thinking about not drinking...
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Please... help me.
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