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    #16
    Response to gentle nudge...getting back on it..

    Queenbug;1577010 wrote: Bless you ...thank you. When I wrote this early this morning I felt so wretched...thought I sounded pathetic....it's helped so much to have such a caring response. Thank you x
    Very far from pathetic Queenie.:l Your strength shines through the many angles of your story. Breaking free from several life challenges is inspiring! I have wondered about you many times and glad to see you back and moving forward. :l
    Psalms 119:45


    ?Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.?

    St. Francis of Assisi



    I'm not perfect, never will be, but better than I was and not as good as I'm going to be.

    :rays:

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      #17
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      Hello RC...thank you for saying that....I remember you being one of those people who held me together those early days...and haven't ever forgotten...Screeching my way through a tough day 4 onto 5 again...but glad to have such good souls around ....I hope you are well?
      :h x
      ...peace and quiet....and a cup of tea.....heaven:h

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        #18
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        Queenbug, I just saw this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. That took great strength. I am inspired. You have been through so much, yet have emerged a stronger, and more loving person. Please see yourself the way we do. You are a remarkable woman, a wonderful mother, and obviously a good friend, who has suffered incredible difficulties and betrayals. Infidelity hurts. Especially with a good friend. That's a double betrayal, and I'm sure you felt like your heart had been put through a blender. And then trying to take your kids, well, there are no words. It's not surprising that you ended up in abusive relationships after that experience. Your self-esteem was damaged to its core. That takes some time to heal, but I can hear in your post, that you are getting there.

        As K9 said...you are TOO GOOD for alcohol. xx. Holding your hand through all of this. Stay strong.
        Everything is going to be amazing

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          #19
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          Queenbug;1577877 wrote: Hello RC...thank you for saying that....I remember you being one of those people who held me together those early days...and haven't ever forgotten...Screeching my way through a tough day 4 onto 5 again...but glad to have such good souls around ....I hope you are well?
          :h x
          I am well enough, thank you for asking Queenie. Hope you're onto day 5 without needing too much grease. :l
          Psalms 119:45


          ?Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.?

          St. Francis of Assisi



          I'm not perfect, never will be, but better than I was and not as good as I'm going to be.

          :rays:

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            #20
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            Thank you....what lovely people you are....:h
            ...peace and quiet....and a cup of tea.....heaven:h

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              #21
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              Queenie! You held me up in my early days. I'm so happy to see you. :l

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                #22
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                Hey fly!,,,... Hope you are ok....happy to see you too xx
                ...peace and quiet....and a cup of tea.....heaven:h

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                  #23
                  Response to gentle nudge...getting back on it..

                  Hi, Queenbug -

                  Thanks for sharing your story. You mention that you work with kids and would never beat them up the way you beat yourself up. I am seeing a private therapist and that is one thing we have been working on. Why would you talk to yourself in such a negative way when you would NEVER do that with someone else? Be kind. You're welcome to me in the nest is what has given me courage to try to be honest and open in my posts. Thanks.

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                    #24
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                    Pav...you are so welcome....what is so great here is realising that you are not alone and there is a 'way out'....you are quite right....we do need to work out why we can be so unkind to ourselves. Hope that you are ok. I'm back at work so struggle to catch up with the newbies nest....but do post on some slower ones so don't think I've disappeared : ))....big love xx
                    ...peace and quiet....and a cup of tea.....heaven:h

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                      #25
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                      Hey Queenie - missing you. How are things going?
                      Everything is going to be amazing

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                        #26
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                        Hya Moss....I'm still here...went back to work on Monday and the hours and stress just swallows me up...by the time I sit down at night...I drop off! Had a bit of a rubbish one too as I found a mole on one breast had changed and developed a lump and when I went to GP things happened really quickly and I was in having bits cut away etc for analysis. Was fine until that evening and then freaked a bit....drank a few glasses of wine but then tipped half bottle away....not the way to handle it all I know but old habits and all that. Upshot is waiting for results and trying not to drink any more : )).....ho hum. How are you doing? I have posted quickly on the daisychain and tried to keep up with that one...but didn't see you there. Big Love xx
                        ...peace and quiet....and a cup of tea.....heaven:h

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                          #27
                          Response to gentle nudge...getting back on it..

                          Popping in to say hello Queenie and sorry to hear about the lump discovery. I'm sure the uncertainty is scary. Try to stay in the now and not fixate on a projected outcome. The stress will not do you any good. Peace and strength to you.:l
                          Psalms 119:45


                          ?Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.?

                          St. Francis of Assisi



                          I'm not perfect, never will be, but better than I was and not as good as I'm going to be.

                          :rays:

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                            #28
                            Response to gentle nudge...getting back on it..

                            Oh my, Queenie, so sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how distressed you must be right now. Sending huge hugs and prayers. But great job on dumping the rest of the wine! Not sure I would have been that strong. I'm inspired. Hang in there and stay positive. xx
                            Everything is going to be amazing

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