Firstly i am sorry about my auful spelling and use of grammar and generaly the point of each paragraph, but i have many years to write something in english or talk either 
I red the posts and i like the way you think and react in these occasions. My mum have beeing drinking alcohol before i was born. She has got divorce 3 times and grow a child (me) by herself, she did it very well. But she has problems (i don't know the exact word in english) like she can't do nothing and she doesn't worth anything and she does always mistakes etc...Nobody in my family since i remember never said to her bravo cause of her type of life, they thought it s wrong and her life wasn't acceptable in third persons! I m saying all this because she is a great person and i don't want to make her seem a person to blame for in other people..
When she drinks she becomes another person, she is very agressive and specially whith me. She got hurt by driving several times in bad crashes, i am afraid when i am not at home that she may get hurt etc.
I came up in many ways to hepl her but nothing helped...lately i convinced her to see a doctor, cause when she is not drunk she understands how bad it is for herself. I don't see any reasolts yet and i don't know what else to do, noone from family cares and it s me that i have to take the dessisions, it is not easy i am 20 years old, and i feel like i am 80 and have to look after my 13een sister!
Its a pitty because except from she is my mum and i love her to death, she is an incredible person and i don't like to see her like this.
I know how hard this is because i was using drugs a big period of my life and i almost died, she doesn't know it! this is good, but i got over it by myself and now i feel more alive and i love life more than i did! i hope she understand this for her addiction before is too late, because you know that problems like that don't increase step by step, after a period they can become worse and has no turning back many times..
it is not a good story and i don't meen to end this message so miserable (whith my grammar becomes more misserable :P) I thing that we can always turn thing upsite down
but we need to try hard for that and only ourselves can take this disision.
thanks for your time
I red the posts and i like the way you think and react in these occasions. My mum have beeing drinking alcohol before i was born. She has got divorce 3 times and grow a child (me) by herself, she did it very well. But she has problems (i don't know the exact word in english) like she can't do nothing and she doesn't worth anything and she does always mistakes etc...Nobody in my family since i remember never said to her bravo cause of her type of life, they thought it s wrong and her life wasn't acceptable in third persons! I m saying all this because she is a great person and i don't want to make her seem a person to blame for in other people..
When she drinks she becomes another person, she is very agressive and specially whith me. She got hurt by driving several times in bad crashes, i am afraid when i am not at home that she may get hurt etc.
I came up in many ways to hepl her but nothing helped...lately i convinced her to see a doctor, cause when she is not drunk she understands how bad it is for herself. I don't see any reasolts yet and i don't know what else to do, noone from family cares and it s me that i have to take the dessisions, it is not easy i am 20 years old, and i feel like i am 80 and have to look after my 13een sister!
Its a pitty because except from she is my mum and i love her to death, she is an incredible person and i don't like to see her like this.
I know how hard this is because i was using drugs a big period of my life and i almost died, she doesn't know it! this is good, but i got over it by myself and now i feel more alive and i love life more than i did! i hope she understand this for her addiction before is too late, because you know that problems like that don't increase step by step, after a period they can become worse and has no turning back many times..
it is not a good story and i don't meen to end this message so miserable (whith my grammar becomes more misserable :P) I thing that we can always turn thing upsite down
but we need to try hard for that and only ourselves can take this disision.thanks for your time
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